I was checking my email and I received an email from an old "friend" of mine.
To give some history this "friend" and I, were "in love" as teeny boppers. She was stuck on me, then we fell apart because she wanted to be an ultra dubbie, and I didn't. We both eventually married other people and lost track of each other, then we both divorced. One day, back in summer 2005, I was lonely, so I called her parents place looking for a number, they didn't answer but passed along my number. I was in the process of my divorce when we began talking. I found out she had been in some trouble through the years and wasn't an active witness. Well I talked her into going back. We were reunited, and eventually tried some long distance "email dating" and saw each other a couple times. Then she started pioneering, and wanting to be an ultra dubbie again, and she started bossing me around over the phone. She then started seeing another guy where she lived, and denied it to me. Then one day I get a wedding invitation in the mail to her wedding. How's that for a fine "How do you do?" Anyway I called and basically said "Thanks for the invitation to your wedding, I guess you were dating someone else huh? Seeing a breakup like this really hurt, wished you would've told me. Please have a nice life, but leave me alone." At that point (fall of 2006) I had been fading. She emailed me a few times after she got married, without her husband knowing. They were having problems in their marriage. I told her to work it out with him, because I didn't want to be involved.
I eventually got DF'd and emailed her saying so, and she begged me to come back. She told me again about more marital problems. I told her to stay with him, work on their marriage and keep communicating with each other. He wasn't beating her or anything, they just weren't talking about stuff, and it sounded like they had different priorities. I also told her to not contact me unless of severe emergency like a death or something.
Now here I am, 2008, a very happily DF'd, engaged man, with a fiancee that I love more than anything in the world. And I get an email from this "old friend" and it said:
"Are you reinstated yet? I will be at the convention back home this weekend"
"No I'm never coming back, ever. I'm busy living a full and happy life with my fiancee, we are set to marry this fall. Hope all is well with you. Please lose my email address permanantly."
Why in the hell is she emailing me? What's this all about? I haven't even thought twice about her since I emailed her about being DF'd. Why the sudden contact? Is she trying to interfere with my happiness? Is it more innocent than I'm thinking? I'd never leave my fiancee for anyone or anything that woman is everything to me.