Good Morning Jeff,
Hope you had a good Sunday, I know I did. Sunday afternoon naps are magical!
You wrote:
Your essay on guilt was interesting. My point wasn't about guilt though, it was about sin. "Sin" produces imo (and many others) unreasonable amounts of guilt. To suggest that the eradication of guilt is my main point is wrong. I hope that helps.
I must apologize then if I got it wrong. I was trying to follow your lead here:
I saw the very sad consequences of "sin" in action with the guilt and self destructive behavior it often engenders.
Especially since my questions here were not addressed here:
Addditionally, even if we disregard all of God's ideas concerning right and wrong, are you willing to stand before the Supreme Judge and have him replay your life and then have him dish out to you, the judgments that you have dished out to others? Ever shown indifference when mercy was requested? Ever passed by someone in need? Ever said God doesn't exist? Surely, if there is a God worth worshipping who deals in justice, we should expect the same from him, right?
And since you apparently agree that the two are inextricabley related here:
The anxieties sin and guilt cause have to be alleviated, and need to be "covered" by a blood sacrifice that supposedly occurred 2000 years ago. Fanciful.
Since you didn't answer my question having to do with sin, I followed your lead on the guilt aspect of your argument. I am more than willing to go back to sin because that is the cause of guilt. Fair enough.
Sin means basically missing the mark. Have you ever said to yourself, "I will not lie" "I will not steal", I will not commit adultery, I will be merciful, I will love my neighbor?
Have you ever violated any rules that you have erected for yourself? That's sin. Ancient Greeks called it virtue. God calls it sin. The way I see it, and please interject any other options you see available here, is that if a person is going to deal with this phenomanon, to have the subsequent stress "alleviated" as you put it; they can.
1.) Go into denial and excuse themselves each time a violation occcurs. This of course sets up a cognitive dissonace where the subject believes he has standards, and to be "good", even though at the same time he increasingly violates them the longer he lives. Or,
2.) He can erradicate the standards themselves so that he can declare himself righteous by default.
I personally can't see any other options here, can you? Denial or a-morality.
Of course, this doesn't even broach the subject of justice when we judge others by the very standards we violate. Or if we say that we are a-moral, having no standards ... but we then arbitraily set some up for others when it suits our personal interests. If there is a God, and this thread assumes that there is; If he is just, one can assume that he sees all this and will apply rules of justice at some point for each moral being.
I agree with you that it is better to deal with the cause rather than the symptom. Guilt is simply an emotion that delivers high quality information to the cognitive faculties for examination. If it is consistently ignored, it will cease to function but that doesn't mean that the sin has gone away.
One of many problems I have wth Sin, aside from the arbitrary aspects of labelling certain conduct as offensive to god, is the sad affects to those who truly believe they will never be able to live up to gods expectations. To suggest that if one suffers inordinate guilt though being athiest means that the thiests way is better lacks a foundation. At least if athiest's suffer inordinate guilt, it isn't institutionalized. Anyone can have issues, and all of us usually do to one extent or another.
These really are excellent points. It is related to many aspects of the parts of man, psychological, spiritual, and practicality. Without some mechanism for dealing with the issues you raise here, it wouldn't be very wise at all to jump head long into reality. I mean, we still need to function, put on our shoes in the morning and go to work, pay the bills etc.
If you are a life long salesman like me, it is even more critical to be "on" at work...thinking positive thoughts, thinking of success not failure, possibilities, not futility. I want to mainly save this discussion for my coming section on Sanctification, but briefly, what God has done is to change the motivational direction for man: He has made it possible to morally and rightfully, with a foundation in reality, not imagination; to change the motivational direction of man that is primarily a "moving away from" to a primarily "moving toward".
This is critical. While the former is by far the stronger, it is in the latter that man experiences his full potential as a composit, moral, spiritual, and physical being. The obstacles to this process is what God's business is in the life of a believer.... and it is awesome.
The institutionalization of guilt and the blackmail by god for worship is what upsets me the most.
Don't be upset Jeff. If you consider God blackmailing you, than you'll have to also concede that any standard or authority is also blackmailing you to some degree, since we break them all, and suffer the consequences.....if only psychologically. As moral beings we'll always deal with our failures either through illusion, a-moraility, or supernaturally. There is no real escape from this aspect of our existence.
For me, I'd much rather just ignore the issues, and I did for a long time. I'm very practical. When the pain of not dealing with morality became greater that the pain of dealing with it honestly, God happened. God saw me coming a long time before I ever wanted to see him. He was the last Person I ever wanted to deal with that's for sure.
Christians talk about love, and how we can be attracted to Christs love and his sacrifice. And by the way, if you dont' appreciate it and exercise faith, you are going to hell.
Wrong Jeff. You are perfectly free to do as you please. People go to hell because of the un-atoned (unpaid) crimes that they have committed. If we had judges that never exacted fines for traffic violations, how long would it take for drivers to sink into chaotic driving? I've been in foreign taxis and KNOW what a wild and crazy experience that is. Could a driving society without fines be said to be lawful? Maybe on some philosopher's dusty book shelf in his ivory tower. But, for the folks....the answer would have to be no.
Good judges don't levy fines because the people before him may or may not love him. He levies fines because of the violations that have been committed by the defendant. Really, punishment is a necessary and practical aspect of love and a duty of justice.
But don't feel you HAVE to believe or anything....... Thus the guilt. What am I supposed to do? I am told it is all about love, but then I have a hatchet over me all the time if I don't believe? And that isn't supposed to engender unusual amounts of guilt if I am blackmailed to believe on pain of death? There is no love there, only guilt inducement.
Jeff, here you assume that God somehow causes death, and that left alone....you'll just keep on living. I believe that this uniquely ex-JW belief is due to the erroneous and phobic teaching of the WT. They taught us that the paradise was right around the corner and that if we did what the WT said we'd keep on living and God wouldn't destroy us. This of course is biblical non-sense:
Hebrews 9:27 | it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment |
The provable reality is that we all die. That is not the issue here. Here is the real issue according to Jesus, who is also I might add the Judge:
- And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
I have not ruled god out, but I know I won't ever believe in a god of judgement. If he exists, he has been to hidden, too "whack-a-moleish" if you will to reserve the right to destroy people who do not believe in him.
Again, I see WT phobic reasoning. God won't punish people because they don't believe in him as you claim. He'll punish people for their violations of their own laws that they have hypocritically judged others by and quite possibly by his own laws, which by the way much overlap peoples' and societies' own laws.
Most of us are guilty of watching trashy day time shows like Judge Judy or something like that. The hight point is always when the one suing (calling for justice) is found out by strategic questioning, that they either lied or excused themselves for the same violation they are suing for.
We love it when they are caught and the judgment comes down along the lines...."if it's judgment you want, then it's judgment you'll get. Judgment in favor of the defendant." I think we like those episodes because if reminds of a truth we know deeply, even if it's buried. That truth is that we really don't want justice..... we want mercy.
Only our pride stands in the way from receiving it.