Well I fried my motherboard so no computer access for me for a while.
My JW grandmother died last Tues. Of course no one told me until the day before the funeral. My ex-JW aunt thought she would give it a few days to see if my mother would make the call.
And I suspected no one told her DFed son, so I asked Mouthy/Grace and her daughter to get a message to him. At least some of us think family should know when a parent dies.
She would have been 99 yrs old next month. I was really hoping that she would make it to 100 and the huge non-JW family would give her a birthday party.