Humans are spectra of expressionism resulting from privelage or oppression, from caraful cultivation to 'cluster bomb' lifestyles which mostly are not of their choosing but are the environment human birth and its journey chose for them! That is the reality! That is the experience laughing at psychobabble!
How can we each know what we are without the co dependency of our peer group to validate our successfully being included in the crop of human fodder? And if we breakdown due to isolation, we get told it's due to over reliance on co-dependency! Funny haha - right there people!
And who do/have the religious or the professional looked to, to substantiate their viewpoints - mainly themselves or their peers? Lol - most would go meltdown if all their peers left them for longterm dead - more especially if they were on the severalth cycle of such an experience!
Any of you who have been on the carousel of isolated and berated know more about how it really is than anyone you are likely to ask advice from!
Just take what comes at you through that personal filter you have of your own which you learn to use more and more as you see how the world truly operates!