I have heard this in talks directed to everyone, not just the youth. People in the workplace need to stand out against the world. It's as if every non-witless smokes, every other word out of their mouths is a swear word, and they all go around taking drugs all the time (which is a blatant lie--only a few are actually that debased). They want people to be afraid of normal human desire, and to substitute desires that only serve God's nefarious purposes.
To contrast, the "secret society" that I checked out does not have this distinction. They claim that the vast majority of people will be salvageable, and that they will benefit even without lifting a finger. (Then why did I sign in? Primarily to give Jehovah a slap in the face.) There is no distinction between "us" and "them", nor do they want "us" to stand out against "them". The only thing that is supposed to distinguish "us" from "them" is that we are not going to fall for the games and scams that our leaders are playing to keep us as their slaves--nothing more. "We" celebrate all the holidays and birthdays, "we" believe in having fun, "we" are willing to develop friendship with the world--none of which is permitted by the Filthful and Disgraceful Slavebugger.
In fact, only the minority of those trying to enslave mankind to start dictatorships and Dark Ages will be condemned. "On the fence" is not going to get you destroyed or condemned. People will see those who are actively trying to ruin things for everyone by enslaving us for what they are, and they will start being shunned. Not because of some doctrine, but because everyone will be pxxxed at what they have done, and want none of it. And, they will not want to associate with such humanoids because they don't want to give them a chance to enslave us again.
And yes, cult leaders like Ted Jaracz and the other members of the Filthful and Disgraceful Slavebugger will be on that short list of those who are condemned. But those who take drugs, have tattoos, are promiscuous, and swear will not be condemned (remember, Jesus associated with such ones and did not harshly condemn them for it?).