Ask him if he thinks 1914 is important. And, why.
I did. He said because of world war 1, bla, bla bla...
I asked, what if new light came out that it was 1920, for example? He asked, well, what if they say it's today??? He won't lost "his faith"... Anyways, he knows crap about 1914 pretty much just like me... I said he shouldn't be an MS if he didn't know. He said he wasn't trying to... I call BS...
I think guys handle bad news like this differently than women do (generally). I think guys tend to throw a fit at first, and then settle down and wiegh out the pros and cons. Also, horniness can set in :)
you have a point, lol...
Remember deep down your hubby loves you for it. His denying your reasons for walking away from the society, it sounds a little passive-aggressives. Passive-aggressives are attracted to dynamic types like you because you conveniently take on all the big, painful decisions for them. And the hits that go with it.
I hope so... I said to him tonight, "if you just read scriptures for 2 or 3 weeks without reading the publications, u will start having problems with the literature". He said he wouldn't cause he wouldn't not be "spiritually fed"... I said that would reading scriptures still spiritually feed u? He said that he didn't want my "apostate thinking around". I said that I was encouraging reading scriptures. He said, "I don't tell you what to read, don't tell me"... I said that he was just afraid of what he would find out. I asked, then, if I could read CofC. I asked if he would tell. He didn't said nothing. I said then don't act like you don't try and tell me what I can and can't think or read...
Hopefully things will go a little better if you both go to a therapist together. I'm glad to see you doing that. It will be less threatening than going to " mind control" elders who would give you unprofessional advice they learned from a printing company !
Yeah, I planning on restating exactly how I feel in front of the therapist... I hope it goes well... Thanks!
