This really sucks…Living a double life for the sake of family...

by tooktheredpill 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • tooktheredpill
    tooktheredpill

    Open Mind: Thank you very much for your suggestions!

    TTRP

  • TheListener
    TheListener

    Hey TTRP. Your situation stinks. I know because I'm living it too.

    All I can say is hang in there.

    A friend told me once something that I'll never forget:

    You and your wife built a foundation together. The truth was integral to that foundation. You leaving the truth or slowly fading away is rocking her foundation to the core. Without a foundation she doesn't know what will happen. You have to reassure her, comfort her and care for her in every way possible. You are responsible for building a new foundation or replacing the truth elements in your current foundation so she can feel secure with changed circumstances.

    Me? Well, I'm building a foundation next to hers so one day I can move her peacefully over to it.

  • sf
    sf

    Sickeningly Sad.

    sKally

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