several years ago my hub and i went overseas for a month, and at the time had 4 minor children......
we created a trust fund for the children and after deep soul-searching, we asked a young, (and at the time childless) couple to be guardians should the need arise....that was us being responsible..... the kicker was>>>> we named the WTS as beneficiaries should the great tragedy of all family members dying occur......
i have been feeding little tidbits to the hub for the last few weeks, esp the CSA issues, as this strikes close to home..... he found silent lambs ..... and not being the research oriented type, he stopped there..... but his distaste for the borg is well established....
at any rate, the point is that i told him today that once the dust of the holidays settles i wanted us to change the trust to 1) assign the now 23 YO son as the guardian and 2) get the WTS out of our affairs.... and DELETE them from the trust......
just like the subject line reads..... coming to my senses