How far would you go to save your marriage ?

by troubled mind 15 Replies latest social relationships

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    Would there be a limit to what you would do to make your mate happier ?

    Would you swallow all you know and go back to meetings just to try to make it work ?

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    What you speak of is selfish, cowardly, and psychologically damaging on so many levels.

    I would feel horrible for anyone who made such a decision.

  • lisavegas420
    lisavegas420
    Would there be a limit to what you would do to make your mate happier ?

    Yes, I wouldn't wouldn't do anything I personally thought was wrong.

    Would you swallow all you know and go back to meetings just to try to make it work ?

    No. I personally think it is wrong.

    lisa

  • garybuss
    garybuss

    You asked: "Would you swallow all you know and go back to meetings just to try to make it work ?"

    That wouldn't fit my definition of "working".

  • Paralipomenon
    Paralipomenon

    I would work as hard as I could so long as I felt my wife was working equally as hard.

    There's concessions, then there's lost causes. If one side is unwilling to compromise (ie. religion) then that issue has taken priority over the marriage and I would move on.

  • zagor
    zagor

    No I've tried that, as nvr says it is damaging. As they say "definition of stupidity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result"

    I'm really tired of relationships where I'm the only one who always need to adjust and understand, to put it simply.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    I'm really tired of relationships where I'm the only one who always need to adjust and understand, to put it simply.

    Amen zagor!

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free
    I'm really tired of relationships where I'm the only one who always need to adjust and understand, to put it simply.

    Me too. In every close relationship I was ever involved in, my bird is the only living thing who was ever willing to meet me half way.

    W

  • zagor
    zagor
    In every close relationship I was ever involved in, my bird is the only living thing who was ever willing to meet me half way.

    LMAO, I know the feeling :)

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    My bird is always there for me too.

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