sister-in-law (page 3)

neverendingjourney

My 2 cents: If posters wish to remain anonymous (as I do) never, ever give anyone your real name, especially in private messages. Also, resist the temptation of giving out overly-specific details about your personal life that people can use to positively identify you.

Sparkplug

bigdreaux~so your saying your sister inlaw becky confronted you today and called you an apostate. Just like that? She said she used a searched engine and 'espically google' and came up with JWD and here you were. Did she tell the elders? Or is she going to stay and lurk for a bit? Was she mad? Upset? How did you handle it when she told you? Did she tell your wife also? So the whole family will be here soon...drew, anna and becky. Who is next? Dang!

lol...Make room for grampa Al, and grandma Alice. Uncle Phil and Auntie Em. geez. I sure hope this turns out all right for you. Maybe becky will learn something. Who knows. This is crazy

Oops, hell, maybe your dad will show up soon eh? that always is a treat.

White Dove

Oh, and did I mention that my name is not Chenoa and I am not from Canada? Hahaha! Lurkers, just try and find me! Just you try!!!

bigdreaux

sparkplug, the way it happened, my wife's father called this morning telling her i was on this site. he asked if she knew that. she responded, not only did she know, but, she was also a part of it. he has temper issues, but, she was surprised that he actually stayed calm. she said, well, now you know, how did he find out? he said her sister, becky, googled my name, and it directed her here. i didn't give that much thought, but, after talking to people on here, i decided to try it myself. it did not direct me here no matter what i tried. so, now i am thinking she's lurking because, i really don't even know her that good, and the only people we know in common are her family. so, somebodies lying somewhere.

as for those of you who think i may be "fishing" to out people, let me assure you, my motive is the excact opposite. i realise how troublesome it can be for someone if they were found out. i am happy with my beliefs, and respect others beliefs. i only wanted to raise awareness if in fact is was possible to be found out. i don't think it is, but, if you have something to lose, make sure you protect yourself.

Sparkplug

Bigdreaux~ I googled your online name and boy oh boy did all the dating sites pop up for New Orleans. lol with all the swingers and such! Even an avatar and your Thoms chat. Oops. Now I wonder what old becky is gonna make of that? apostasy and sex! you have been a bad boy...

Don't worry tho' if you put my name in, a bunch of dutch gay porn sites pop up. So who knows what all coincidences we can pass off as being other things. Just tell them it is some other 6' 7" guy from New Orleans. lol. "Lucy, I say you have some explaining to do! " lol

Really though, hopefully you are not 6' 7' and really 5' 2' and a flaming red head and completely opposite of all the online profiles that pulled up so that there is no confusion. That way there is not too much flack. But I bet with them already surfing this site....they really don't care anyway. Right?

NotaNess

Darn it Worldly Andre, now you've attached a demon to her computer with the moticon.. :)

bigdreaux

yeah, wow, i did the same thing. i don't even remember most of that stuff. i did do the internet dating thing before i met my wife. BIG MISTAKE. i found out what actually happened. she googled my e-mail, and it brought her to another ex-jw site i go to. not this one. sorry if i scared some of you guys. lol and yes, i am 6'7", but, have no idea where the red hair thing came from. lol p.s. i don't go to those dating sites anymore. sorry ladies, i found the love of my life and don't need anything more.

NotaNess

I googled my ID, and there is actually someone with the same ID on another type of forum for motorcycles, etc.

I thought mine would have been an only one, but.....

Missanna

lol it cracks me up how nosey people are. i can't believe my sister did that. but whatever. now they know and now feel even more free. and babe, you are too sweet! lol sorry just had to throw that in there. i think becky is secretly in love with my husband. lol

sister-in-law

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