It really doesn't matter which word you use when JW's don't want to be around you: Disassociated or Disfellowshipped is part and parcel of the same status. You are dumped
Terry, that is what i understand - and that is okay.
Now, following that policy - that I have now been dumped, turfed, my membership revoked means that technically, if I am no longer one of Jehovahs Witnesses, then I can no longer be considered as baptized. Their rules. They have publically revoked my baptism by announcing that I am no longer one of Jehovahs Witnesses. That's still okay - if they were making a public statement that '.xxx is no longer one of Jehovahs Witnesses in good standing', it would be different, but the announcement implies something quite different.
Now - here I sit as a non JW - on the same level as a worldly person. My family is allowed fellowship with their worldly relatives. Should that not include any person that the society has turfed out publically, since they, by their own actions have technically removed the baptism by da/df status? Once a person is no longer considered a JW, they should be treated just like any other person in the world, especially family members. If an Elder or committee of Elders, harasses either the former baptized member or their family by directing them to shun those family members, could that not be construed as invasion of privacy, and depending on the depth of the harrassment, a cause for a legal notice to cease the harrassment? If Elders continue to announce to family and others, that a person is an apostate or affix some other label to them, that causes harm to them - after they are announced as no longer one of Jehovahs Witnesses - is their action now not that of a member of the clergy, but as a member of the public. In other words - to defame, harrass or invade one's privacy when one is no longer one of Jehovahs Witnesses, is cause for legal recourse is it not, since the laws of membership within the religious organization no longer apply to the individual?
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