For those of us still incognito and pretty protective of our identity and not personally knowing anyone on the board...
Have you ever wondered when reading someone's post that it reads like it could be your wife/husband/mother/father/brother/sister or a particular dub you used to know well?
Then you try to read some of their other posts to see if the pattern continues and it makes you wonder more and more?
Especially if they don't list what area they're from or if they do list the state/province and it's either the same as yours or near you?
And then you figure out that it can't be who you thought it might could have been and you're disappointed yet again, after getting your hopes up that someone you know has been secretly fading as you have been doing?