Update on "Covert Apostate Campaign"

by lost_light06 3 Replies latest jw friends

  • lost_light06
    lost_light06

    Just an update to my previous post earlier this week http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/116758/1.ashx

    Holding true to form we slept in and didn't go out in service. Plus we are going to a "worldy" party this weekend. This really just confuses me more because when I don't raise any issues or mention my true feelings on the borg. my wife and I do MORE worldly things than ever. We miss MORE meetings and do LESS studying. As soon as I mention my feelings...... BAMM.....wifey changes to super JW mode and we're back at meetings and studying.

  • hubert
    hubert
    As soon as I mention my feelings...... BAMM.....wifey changes to super JW mode and we're back at meetings and studying.

    Well, There's your answer....Don't bring it up.

    Just keep wifey busy doing "worldly" things.

    Hubert

  • lost_light06
    lost_light06

    I learned that real quick. And she doesn't question me. But it doesn't make it any less confusing. She seems to really enjoy our "worldy" life as she is the one that makes most of the arrangements. We still hang out with our JW friends occasionally but lately it has been more with the "worldy" than the JW's. We're stuck in this limbo. She doesn't want to leave the borg. she still thinks it is the true religion but she likes living life to it's fullest and haveing fun (not JW fun, quiet partys watching a G rated movie or studying the WT, but real fun.)

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    I suggest, to break out of the limbo, to learn some techniques from Steve Hassan in his book, "Combatting Cult Mind Control." Learn to recognize your wife's core personality as separate from her put-on cult personality. Don't worry, the more your real wife hangs out with you, the less hold the cult gal will have over your lives.

    http://www.freedomofmind.com/

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