i found this on another forum ... How would you reply???
I have decided to go to my first memorial tonight and think it will be worthwhile and edifying. This will also be my first time in a Kingdom Hall. What do any of you think I should try to take away from this as a "bystander" so to speak? Also, what does my attendance represent to the congregation? Thanks Much To All!
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Pay less attention to the messenger, and more attention to the scriptures being read. While the apostles didn't realize it, this was one of the most important "dinners" in history.
Be gentle in your expectations of the people. The vast majority of attendees at the Kingdom Hall are kind, good-hearted people...even our detractors will admit that. But, you will find many emotionally "harmed" individuals there; that is exactly who Jesus said he would seek out.
Your attendance will be viewed differently by each person. For example, last year, we had 6-7 Mormon "elders" attend our memorial. The brothers were positively fawning over them, as if they were really interested in us! I lived in Salt Lake City for 5 years, so I am aware that part of "what they do" is attend one or two religious services at various denominations so that they can say, "I've been to your church; have you ever been to ours?"
Some will view you as evidence that there are so many more people to come in! Others, will have a slightly more "jaded" viewpoint. But, I can with great confidence say that you will be welcomed!