... nothing has been announced. Here's the deal. After moving from northern MN (congregation #1) to the Twin Cities I attended cong #2 for a couple of meetings and my records were supposedly transferred but I don't know for sure. After this I decided not to go back, but my wife then started to attend cong #3 that was closer to us. Our records may have been moved there but we dont know for sure. That's fine.
So 5 years go by and after a lot of thought I decide to write my DA letter. To me, fading wasn't a good option. I want to wash my hands clean of this clusterf%#$ experience and have closure on my own terms. I am embarrassed and disappointed that I fell for this hook, line, and sinker. I abandoned family and close friends for the joveys. Thank goodness that my family was good about my holier than thou attitude I had, and put up with it. Anyway back on topic.
Without knowing who has my "records", I sent a copy of the letter to all three congregations. One letter was returned unopened from cong #2. I used the address in the phone book, but I guess it was the wrong address, however I did state in the letter that I have sent a copy to each congregations naming each one. The letter was pretty nasty towards cong #1, and I stated that I did not want elders at my door or any other witness for that fact. Other joveys have told me or my wife that they havent heard of an anouncement of my da'ing. So I'm wondering if I should've sent it to the evil bastards in Brooklyn.
I'm sorry if this makes no sense. I've had too much caffiene.