I have found when it is time for the CO to visit, everyone is out witnessing, the elders walk around like humble loving little servants, the sisters are dressed like the Amish and the brothers have time of work to put on their best witnessing hours. (not all are like that, and some really in the know b/s mainly sisters laugh at the show) Who are they? they change their personalities so often to suit.
The hypocricy is undeniable, I have also noticed love show before the CO visits, the elders seem to be more mellow or enquiring of you, like how are you, hope you are well, before that you could be out of the scene for weeks sick and they look at you suspiciously.
I have seen it go on for years. People get the CO spark and then go limp after he's gone.