Most of you have probably noticed I'm kinda new here. Seems like reading some of these posts have opened some old wounds. We all know if you pick at scabs they will bleed.
I was raised in the truth with a devout mother and a "worldly" father. Never realized the mechanics of it until I had been out for some while. Actually it was only about 4 years ago that it struck home what a crock it all was. That realization hit me like a ton of bricks. My faith in Jehovah (yes, I still call Him that even if it is translated incorrectly) has survived. My faith in Jesus has been kicked up several notches.
My problem is dealing with feeling of anger and worthlessness. Anger from wasting my whole life so far. I had a 3.80 gpa in high school, graduated in the top 10 of my class. I was smart, just didn't think I would live this long, so why bother?? Hence comes the worthlessness. Believe me I'm not materialistic, but neither do I want to be broke all the damn time. To quote Marlon Brando "I coulda been a contender". I coulda been something.
I know y'all are saying go out there and get education, it's not too late. But my entire back is fused and it has really started to bother me in the last couple of years. (Scoliosis--but at least the "no blood" policy helped me find the best surgeon in the country.)
Maybe what bothers me is my most vital years were spent either in the WT or pinging because of being df'd. I went seriously crazy. It's only God's grace (read....Christ) that I can even be alive. Me and a little Daytona Turbo Z seemed to have a date with DEATH. (oh and don't forget the Budweiser--a drunk and a fast car are a dangerous combination).
Anyhoo, I look forward to getting to know you guys, I may know some of you already from other places on this journey. I still frequent Pathways because I have made what I feel to be lifelong friends who understand my pinging. Also some of you may know me from Cynthia's yahoo group, I'm the one who got banned for calling George Bush a bastard. I know that was not a loving thing to do, but......... I have issues.