Marked for death

by kenpodragon 3 Replies latest jw friends

  • kenpodragon
    kenpodragon

    When I think of the issue of disfellowshipping, I am often reminded of the Nazi death camps. Often in the early days of Nazi recruitment, the Nazi's would encourage the new young members to report what was going on at home. Those with the best information, were rewarded with the most responsibility and authority. The thing is, when they mentioned that dad was at home saying things against Hitler they did not realize that would lead to dad being pulled into the street and beaten, inprisoned and perhaps killed. As time went on, the rewards for information got larger and the information's still flowed.

    In the congregation I served as a elder and in doing so I was involved in "Sheparding Calls." Most know what these were and no doubt had a few in their time in the congregation. Does anyone recall the final thought to almost 100% of all sheparding calls? Well it often became a question along the lines of, "Is there anything else you would like to talk about, anything you think the elders should be aware of?" To which, I witnessed many people gossiping and telling on family members. Often it was saying things about their friends, children, siblings and even their parents. All in all, they reported knowing full well that they would be getting these people into trouble. How much trouble?

    Well they did not kill them with a gun in the street, but isn't the act of disfellowshipping basically saying they are losing the ability to survive Armageddon. Thus they are killing their future, as defined by their beliefs. So here we have all these Witnesses Nazi's running around reporting on all of their friends and all of their family. Those who have done the most and brought the most to congregation justice, become well known to the elders. Soon they are Ministerial Servants and Elders. Rewards for Justice, or is it paying off the witnesses.

    You decide, but are you glad not to be seeing those Witness arm bands. Well maybe they did not wear them literally, but you knew that everyone was willing to report you for anything. Over the years I was reported for ...

    - Seeing a R rated movie (Which I attended with others who no one noticed)

    - Smoking, when I was not even in town at the time the thing happened (Must have been another tall blond guy)

    - Drinking to much (I had two glasses of wine with dinner at a get together)

    - Addictions (I had a Mocha every morning and a older sister thought I was having a caffeine addiction)

    - Renting X rated movies (I ran the store, so I guess I was renting them)

    All of these were reported on me by people I trusted. In 100% of the cases I was innocent, but I had to take the hours needed to prove it to them. Then I had to see these people later and act like nothing was wrong. How could anything be wrong, you only tried to kill me.

    Nice to be out

    Dragon

    Edited by - kenpodragon on 18 July 2002 23:20:30

  • Mimilly
    Mimilly

    Dragon - That last paragraph is a keeper. Your dead on. I can remember when a rumor was sent around the tiny town I lived and worked in. A rumor started by my own husband who was worming his way into the JWs graces in order to beat me into submission. The interrogations started, and after several of these gestapo meetings, my doctor had to put me on tranquilizers. I went to every meeting, was pleasant as though nothing was going on, tried to answer at meetings, continued in service with the entire congregation shunning me on rumor only. I was not reprimended or reproved. But the rumor stuck, as they do in small towns. Between holding my head high in the face of this, which was started by my own husband, and the ceaseless interrogations (there were too many to count; it was like they weren't going to stop until I admitted something I didn't do, or gave in out of their tortuous proceedings).

    I ditto you - so glad to be out. They are not referred to as the Gestapo for nothing.

    Mimilly

  • gsx1138
    gsx1138

    OUCH! Mimilly. I've never read your story but that small bit of it is powerful. My story is nowhere near that bad as by the time the rumors started flying about me I really didn't care. I even went so far as to tell an Elder who was questioning me about a rumor that I'd talk to him when I felt something was his business. I did see this type of crap with others in my congregation though.

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    A funny story from last November:

    I had been in a congo where it seemed that at least half of the members were related in one way or another. That ol' JW inbreeding. Anyway, one of the elders was a really nice old (85 yrs) guy, he was a member of this family. This elder has four kids in their 40's and 50's, all of which were baptized dubbies at one time but only one of which has stuck with the troof. He still has more than "business-only" contact with the others, and everyone knows it, but he got away with it.

    One of his daughters (whom I've since come to know) is a very well-known and vocal ex-jw in my area. "Apostate Queen" was a term someone used to describe her to me. She left around '87 after having her eyes opened by reading the Bible instead of Watchtower literature.

    Anyways, this elder still has a friendly relationship with this daughter, much to the disgust of the pious ones in the congregation, including his grandson, an alchoholic ex-convict dumb-dub self-righteous true believer.

    So, this daughter has a big feast on Thanksgiving and dad comes over to mingle a bit.

    I don't know the details, but somehow pharisee-grandson learns that granddad is *gasp* at his apostate daughter's house *gasp* celebrating Thanksgiving. So off he runs to the elders.

    Granddad ends up resigning his post as congo elder. You know how the Watchtower Pyramid works, if you're at the bottom rung (publisher, woman) you get df'd for something like this. If you hold a title, you just lose the title.

    When I was a newbie JW, I stumbled across the book "Witnesses of Jehovah". This was when I was still on my "I'VE FOUND THE TRUTH!!!" Watchtower honeymoon. The book said, among other things, that JW's spy on each other. "NO!! THAT'S RIDICULOUS!!" I said to myself.

    I was so naive.

    So glad to be out.

    Edited by - dantheman on 18 July 2002 23:47:55

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