Having had a few days to reflect on this, and resolving some conflicts, I'd like to explore this P/A aspect of human behavior.
First off, let me say that I am oftentimes P/A, usually as an effort to elicit the deeper meanings of other people.
However, sometimes I'm P/A because I'm not really sure of where I'm going in a topic: My indecision presents a P/A.
And then there are times when I'm P/A, not even knowing it.
This last realization was presented to me by another poster, some time back, when he pointed out to me how often the WTS uses P/A in their literature. I had never noticed it. It was just part of my upbringing, my conditioning, and I naturally adopted that "way" of behaving as normal.
So, as another little P/A post : In terms of "relationships," when does being P/A become a truly negative behavior?