Ooh I like the crisis of faith and social anxiety suggestions.. lol. Those are pretty much show stoppers for most people I think. The prying would probably come to screeching halt! I would only bring those out if absolutely necessary though.
I know everyone has their own ways of leaving, I am jsut fortunate that I have been inactive for a few years before I actually realized what I really want. I really appreciate the struggle of people who go from being active and elders, pioneers, etc!! Uggghh what a mess!
For myself I always felt like getting disfellowshipped was playing by THEIR rules. But I of course appreciate how sometimes its a good option.
Life is richer on the outside of the borg because you get to choose what is right for you.
No more rules being imposed on me felt liberating.
Yes, I have made a few friends who aren't witnesses, and oh man it is so relaxing!!! Everyone has their problems of course but you don't feel so judged! Its awesome!