I am an inactive JW and have been for about three years now ... it's hard to keep track since my exit/fade took place over a long period of time. I have since become a muslimah, converted a year and a half ago, and I truly love it. I am working slowly to open the eyes of my family, as they still do not know that I have become inactive. It is a miserable thing to have to pretend to be one thing when I it is so far from what I truly am. I believe,though, that I have made some real progress and have begun to make my family start 'thinking'. I desperately hope that I will be able to show my family how deceptive,deceitful, and destructive the WTS is!