I'm sitting in the fence like so many others here. Mentally Agnostic if God exists or not and if the Bible is his word.
I'm in that category.
the amazing social life and the fact they are so well taken care of
Huh??? The JWs I was with for decades were a drain on me - at least in the later years (the smart ones I knew left). They were intellectually lacking, self-righteous, and mostly ignorant. It was a chore to me to go to JW gatherings. I've been completely out for a good ten years and havn't missed any of it for one second (my wife hasn't, either). I miss the hope I once had and the feeling of security, but not anything social. I hated meetings, the ministry, etc. Meetings were a total waste of time. I often think what I could have accomplished with all those thousands of hours sitting at mind-numbing meetings - what I could have studied and learned, etc. Hell, I could be a master of Mandarin Chinese now (always wanted to learn that and recently saw a job opening that requires it).