I have read that as a Christian your priorities are God , spouse, children , parents , work , church in that order.
Having God first in your life doesn't mean abandoning your responsibilities to those around you . It means discharging those responsibilities with love, integrity and honesty in a balanced way .
Making time to meet with other Christians for worship and learning is important . However working for the church shouldn't mean that you abandon your earthly duties .
Jan from Tam