How do you decide if you are overusing the divine name or underusing, or using it right?
DW: I would leave that to a personal choice for all. but
As the sanctity of the name is enshrined in the 10 commandments, lets compare it to the crown jewels. reserved for very special occasions, If replicas of them were used by every tom dick and harriette on every street corner, the importance, symbolism would be lost, depreciated, a condition the law mandated against imho.
By never using the name, Jesus created an aura of awe that is the exact opposite of what occurs at wt occasion,
A parallel in my mind is the immensity of the cosmos, the might of the energy locked up in the trillions of stars in the billions galaxies, that can never be expressed by a word like "creator" or "father." for
that energy is not even created. simply put:
If you exceed the frequency with which Jesus used the name, do you think you are better than him? will get a better hearing? inspire greater respect, proper awe?