konceptual99
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Can't sign out!
by stillin inmy wife has recently become very curious about my activity on my ipad.
i delete my browsing history but if she should discover this site and my identity here, she will gladly hand me over to the hangman, something i have managed to avoid for quite some time now,.
i hit the "sign out" button, but i find that i'm still logged in!
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konceptual99
Incognito / private browsing is your friend.... -
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"Your Inner Fish" with Neil Shubin on BBC TV
by cofty ina 3 part documentary based on neil shubin's work and narrated by him is currently being shown on bbc 4.. part 1 is on i-player now and part 2 is live right now.. 180 minutes of clearly presented evidence for evolution including the discovery of tiktaalik.
outstanding!.
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konceptual99
Meant to say that the book was one of my "wake up" texts that helped convince me that evolution was not some Satanic diversion -
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"Your Inner Fish" with Neil Shubin on BBC TV
by cofty ina 3 part documentary based on neil shubin's work and narrated by him is currently being shown on bbc 4.. part 1 is on i-player now and part 2 is live right now.. 180 minutes of clearly presented evidence for evolution including the discovery of tiktaalik.
outstanding!.
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konceptual99
This has been a great programme. I have been watching with one of my kids. Not saying anything, just letting them watch and absorb... -
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TERRY EXPLAINS JAZZ (to those who hate jazz)
by TerryWalstrom interry explains jazz (to those who hate jazz)_______________________________.
there are too many reasons to cite.
suffice to say, we all know annoying people.. we don't become a hermit because of a few annoying people.
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konceptual99
Love the post Terry. Hope you enjoy this take on jazz from an old UK sketch show...
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TebUMhJAKSM
Nice....
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The moral problem of Ephesians 5:23
by opusdei1972 infor the husband is the head of the wife as christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the savior.
(ephesians 5:23).
if jesus is the head of the church, jesus is responsible for the many contradictions contained in the new testament.
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konceptual99
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Kudos to you People Who support your Spouse Suffering Meeting Attendance
by smiddy ini was inspired to post this because so many of you lovingly support your spouse by going to meetings conventions etc .knowing the crap your going to have to put up with , hoping that someday he/she will wake up to the bs.. and your willing to do this for as long as it takes .i take my hat off to you all.. it must take a lot of intestinal fortitude and love to do that .. smiddy.
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konceptual99
Lately I have been thinking about what exactly is the worst that could happen if I just said to my wife that I don't believe it anymore. She knows I have doubts but I think the reason she does not press me that hard about it is that she is scared that I don't want it any more. What really is the worst that can happen by opening up about the extent of my feelings?
I have no fear about my marriage so once the initial upset is over then perhaps things would just be pragmatic as I know she would not want me to escalate things so I was DF'ed or DA'ed myself.
It would certainly make managing the increasing questions from the kids easier to handle plus no more making excuses about the ministry etc.
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Kudos to you People Who support your Spouse Suffering Meeting Attendance
by smiddy ini was inspired to post this because so many of you lovingly support your spouse by going to meetings conventions etc .knowing the crap your going to have to put up with , hoping that someday he/she will wake up to the bs.. and your willing to do this for as long as it takes .i take my hat off to you all.. it must take a lot of intestinal fortitude and love to do that .. smiddy.
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konceptual99
I have to say though that I am finding it increasingly hard. Something has to give.
Today we had a talk about "Jehovah's Day" where the speaker emphasised how destructive Jehovah's Day will be. He used the scripture about the Last Days being like "pangs of distress", equating them to birth pangs, something that cannot be ignored and will always result in a conclusion. He then talked about it being as a thief.
I was sitting there steaming - which is it? Are the last days so eventful that they cannot be ignored or is discernment of events so limited that you have to keep watch as if waiting for someone to come in the dead of night and burgle your home?
Then we had the WT about training. The term "young ones" as used over and over again, except of course the article is only talking about young ones with a penis. Not one word about how females can "progress", because of course they can't go that far unless it's on the coat tails of their husband.
Of course, the disengagement of males in the congregation is down to them having secular goals. Perhaps so but no word about perhaps how the theology simply does not make sense anymore. Has my dis-engagement after 20 years as an MS come from not making the truth my own or the fact I woke up to the whole thing being a crock of shite?
After meetings like today's, I really feel fit to burst with anger and frustration.
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All Christians Should Accept EVOLUTION
by FusionTheism init is time for christians to accept evolution, in my opinion.. there are many reasons why i think it is long overdue for all christians to finally accept what science says about evolution.
below i will show these reasons.. .
the bible tells people to pay attention to nature to see the glory of god (psalm 19; romans 1:19-20).
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konceptual99
The Bible is 100% consistent with all "proven" science and "proven" archaeology. According to the WTS.
Where it differs with anything published then the Bible is correct and the experts wrong.
It's easy to harmonise the Bible and science when you are JW.
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Missed the Meeting
by konceptual99 inso yesterday was a lovely day where i live and so instead of going to the meeting we went, as a family, out for the late pm/early evening to have a bbq.
we were far more relaxed than if we had gone to the meeting.
we spent far more time talking that if we had gone to the meeting.
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konceptual99
All I was doing was asking a question, not criticising.
NP Doltologist. I was not taking offence - just responding to your question.
In answer to your second question, the difference is that the latter has a much larger risk of (for me) breaking lots of social/family connections as well as attracting unwanted attention from the elders. The outcome for those more peripheral relationships is the same but a fade allows opportunity to work on family members and reduce the risk of being labelled an apostate.
And to anyone who doesnt "agree" with YOUR way of exiting, give em a big fat sloppy "f*ck you!" It's your business how you handle it. If they wanna judge, the Kingdom Hall is open Thursday night at 7:30--they'll find like-minded asshole dipshits like themselves.
I don't think it's as combative as that. All I know is that there are people here who think that a long fade does not really change that much as far as the end result is concerned and it's essentially fear of the unknown that is preventing someone like from simply standing up and saying what we know to be true. I have no problem with this, I just don't think you can be prescriptive either way. People's circumstances all differ. I don't think most people are judging and I actually am glad to be in a forum where there is freedom to express another opinion without it meaning that we cannot be friends.
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Missed the Meeting
by konceptual99 inso yesterday was a lovely day where i live and so instead of going to the meeting we went, as a family, out for the late pm/early evening to have a bbq.
we were far more relaxed than if we had gone to the meeting.
we spent far more time talking that if we had gone to the meeting.
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konceptual99
And that begs the question, so why are you wasting your life going to meetings of the evil cult?
Indeed however since you are new here you probably don't know that I am on a long fade and working to get my family out with wrecking every family relationship that we have. You cannot force people to see the reality about the WTS so this is the path I am taking.
Not everyone here agrees with my method but it's the way I am going and evenings like yesterday are small victories along the way.