Ageing male fading slowly as of 2017. Enduring what appears to be the usual emotional turmoil after 40 plus years in and at times only part in. I hope to be able to make a reasonably intelligent comment from time to time, which I now feel the need to do without upsetting anybody. I am grateful for what I have read here and on other sites. I also hope one day to help release my lovely and loving wife from "the slave". That is something which I am working on.