However, God himself reveals exactly who he is.
The Bible writers depicted many faces of God. Some of those are not very attractive.
And altho the scriptures repeatedly demonstrate his consideration and affection for his creation,...
It's good you focus on that rather than the God that sends lions to kill innocent children.
...many simply cannot accept that he also has the final say.
Who gets the final say? The GB? the Pope? an ancient writer we never met? God hasn't said anything.