scratchme1010 : "I don't lament my JW past, nor do I celebrate it. It just is. Since I left I am in sync with the world and all it changes, the good ones and the bad ones. I hope you can embrace the world. It's not pretty all the time, but it's the only one we have."
Thank you for your advice! I did not have a 'bad time' as a JW either, in fact had some good times (though based on a silly illusion). That is, until the parting of the ways, when, of course, anyone leaving will be denigrated.
My reflections on yesterday's two signs of change were positive - unlike some, I long ago realised that change is part of life, whether its the physical changes we undergo as we age, or the changes in the world as communities age.
eyeuse2badub: "I cannot complain too much because my life has not been racked with too much in the way of extraordinary pain and suffering. However, like so many here, there has been much in the way of unfilled dreams and aspirations that we gave up to be 'good' jw's."
Even those unfulfilled dreams and aspirations can be met. I honestly do not know what kind of life I would have had, if I had never had anything to do with the YHWH/Jesus mob. But sometime soon I will go to my graduation, and get the scrap of paper (a BA with a major in ancient history and a minor in Japanese history) that is my reward for spending 10 years roaming through time and space and countless books to understand Asia's key role in the human past and probable future.