Yeah, but I do want to get DF'd and be talked to as little as possible, in other words try to not meet the next time as much as possible, but being polite and direct which I'm not sure how to do. Or maybe not direct, but I want it to be clear.
bottleofwater
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How to politely refuse a last chance meeting with the elders?
by bottleofwater inthe elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping.
one of the elders will call me in two days to see what i think because i told him that i don't want to be in the religion anymore.
how can i politely and painlessly refuse?
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Did you ever do something for this religion that now makes you shudder ?
by man in black inback in the early 80's right after i was married the main driving point i kept hearing at the meetings was "do more,,, pioneer ".. well being the young impressionable jw couple that we were, .
my wife is a speech therapist, so working pt was no problem, but i ended up working construction, cleaning carpets, and shoveling snow at all hours with the brothers, and i worked like a d*** fool at all hours.. funny how there was so much support for me to work with the witnesses, but once the decision was made work could be very iffy at times.. and the main thing that just causes me to cringe now is how so many of the witnesses in charge of the congregation thought that we did not need insurance, my wife had a policy with her school district, but my son and i did not.
granted medical expenses were not as bad then, but just the idea of thinking that we did not need it that god would watch over us just embarasses me to no end now.
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bottleofwater
I ditto the whole masturbating thing.
I can't believe I cried many, many years ago over masturbation.
Complete psychological manipulation.
Uhhh... uhhhh.. uhhhhhh.. oh yeah.... oh yeah.... oh yeah..... skeet skeet skeet
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How to politely refuse a last chance meeting with the elders?
by bottleofwater inthe elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping.
one of the elders will call me in two days to see what i think because i told him that i don't want to be in the religion anymore.
how can i politely and painlessly refuse?
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bottleofwater
No I don't. I'm just a nice person and was very social and nice with the elder that is talking to me most of the time over the phone to schedule visits between us over this. It's just difficult because we're all cool.
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How to politely refuse a last chance meeting with the elders?
by bottleofwater inthe elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping.
one of the elders will call me in two days to see what i think because i told him that i don't want to be in the religion anymore.
how can i politely and painlessly refuse?
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bottleofwater
They have evidence against me and I agreed to the evidence being valid.
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How to politely refuse a last chance meeting with the elders?
by bottleofwater inthe elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping.
one of the elders will call me in two days to see what i think because i told him that i don't want to be in the religion anymore.
how can i politely and painlessly refuse?
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bottleofwater
They asked to talk to me tomorrow, but I told them that this is overwhelming and to call me Tuesday instead.
They want to meet up.
How do I avoid this when one of the elders calls me again? They're pretty much trying to get me to repent by Friday or else I'll be disfellowshipped.
You know what? I don't mind being DF'd! Go ahead!
Now how do I just get them away so that way they can go ahead and do their deed?
I know that I'm "unrepentant" and I told one of the elders that I'm probably like that. I told him that I don't feel regret.
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How to politely refuse a last chance meeting with the elders?
by bottleofwater inthe elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping.
one of the elders will call me in two days to see what i think because i told him that i don't want to be in the religion anymore.
how can i politely and painlessly refuse?
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bottleofwater
The elders are giving me a chance to meet up with them a last time in order to try to prevent a disfellowshipping. One of the elders will call me in two days to see what I think because I told him that I don't want to be in the religion anymore. How can I politely and painlessly refuse? (I don't mind being DF'd btw.)
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January WT avaliable, GB come out swinging!
by bohm inthe january wt has some good stuff in it.
the basic message is that armageddon is just about to come, god will kill people, and jws will be spared because they use gods name (of all things!
he is really picky about that name!).
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bottleofwater
Hey there's still a possibility of there being two overlaps in the generation doctrine.
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the internet is sneaky and tempting
by booby inthe watchtower ?
january 15, 2011 23. .
when watching television or using the internet, christians may suddenly.
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bottleofwater
Haven't you ever opened up Sex for Dummies or 21 Mindblowing Oral Sex Techniques just for fun at a bookstore?
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Get the elders to leave me alone!!
by bottleofwater inmy dad read something online that i posted and told the other elders (he's the boe coord.).
they've read me articles about homosexuality and tried to coerce me to stay with the family instead of living with my uncle for a week.
i went to my uncle's anyway.
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bottleofwater
This mostly all happened over two weeks or so.
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WT Jan 2011 - Grieving Holy Spirit Defined?
by sabastious incould alex do?
he might lovingly approach.
steve again and lay bare his fault.
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bottleofwater
Making it cry. Duh!!!