Whatever I am confusing Cofty... you still have not backed up YOUR statement with anything scientific. You're just making it based on what you think you know about a God you say does not exist, and so a God you do NOT know.
As for your question, it does not seem that there is any answer or consideration that will suffice for you. If ever someone provides you with one, great. If not... I guess you are just going to have to ask God when you meet Him. (or you could ask His Son NOW and listen for His answer)
Then or now, I guarantee that His answer will not be against love and truth.
But until then, this question and these debates will continue.
Peace,
tammy