Not a JW, but my bride of a lifetime is and has been for at least 50 years. After all this time you would think I would know something about WTS but I have found that my questions to her or other JWs (with the exception of our daughter who left WTS) always elicts anger or defense. Even tried a number of years back to attend a convention with her, but I could not take the theme seriously "What Did Jesus Hate?". I do not believe that Jesus taught us to hate. Overall, the contributers of this site seems to reflect a broad spectrum of mindsets regarding WTS.