Nina,
You and Chris are to be envied, both of you on the same page. So much you and he can share from both sides of the Jdubs.
...the ruse is mostly being untrue to oneself and that sucks big time.
My heart's out to you and those in your position, Midget.
...Plus I wrote what I call my BLOOD LETTER that Five differrent Elders tried to answer and one cried after reading it, one quit and is now out. ... Also the Shepperding Book say's if a publisher has not been going to meetings for over a year they are longer a witness so do not DF them. I have reminded the Elders sevreal times about this statement in the shepparding book.
What a great job, Skyman! Hat's off to you. Uh ... I was not aware of that one year "statute of limitations" you mention. I was led to believe it was some ten years.
Mrs RockyII -- you, like Nina, are so very fortunate. Your mate AND your children are finally on the same page with perhaps some more distant shunned relations and friends. I love your "Hotel California" classic line. So fitting.
Vitty, my heart, and others I'm sure, are aching with you.
Gary, you and I share much more than I thought.
"...An honest fade can be done. It just takes time and patience."
Great encouragement for us all, RobDar, with your parents finally coming along.
"...I fired off a letter to one of the elders and told him that there were powerful laws that I would invoke to protect my reputation should the slander continue. I never had a 'shepherding call' or visit after that."
Encouraging, Jeff. Good for you.
Pete, it appears you were victim of those penetrating type elders. Sorry.
Luna, I wish you the very best. It's only been a short time but, congratulations so far.
Fats