Thank you for your answer. It seems to me my jw must be in some old fashioned cong then! Though I can't really say as we no longer discuss jw things. He still wears a suit & tie and seems as zealous as always. Then again I don't really know where he is going on Sat mornings. Ha, so never mind, I know nothing.
Posts by carla
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37serena williams
by FreeFallin innot really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .
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serena williams
by FreeFallin innot really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .
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carla
Liam, you should check out old posts here and what people have had to endure being a jw and especially by the elders.
There are so many stories of elders acting outrageous. Putting their foot in a door of a jw woman who is home alone and barging in, elders staking out a persons house because they are spying to catch them supposedly having an affair (even if they weren't), elder claiming he was 'helping' a single mother put her kid to bed while she was busy elsewhere he was 'busy' in the bedroom with the child and the stories go on and on.
Then there are the judicial meetings where they ask the most inappropriate questions I have ever heard of even of minors who had to face down 3 elders without a parent or adult with them. Imagine you had a girlfriend and you went a bit too far with her, now you have to go give a play by play to 3 men. By play by play I mean every detail and no need to leave anything out. Basically verbal porn.
Does it ever bother you to be associated with such a group?
Do they do 'disfellowshipping' or now it is called 'removal' of members in your kh?
(carla, not ever a jw, a ubm (unbelieving mate, spouse joined up later in marriage) hope you don't find my questions offensive)
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A message from Barbara Anderson re: the health state of her hero, her husband, Joe Anderson
by jwleaks infrom barbara:.
my dear husband, joe anderson, has had very real problems with his short-term memory for at least a year which really worried me.
as his mental health deteriorated, i decided to have our local longtime physician talk alone with joe during an office visit last september.
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carla
I'm so sorry Barb, wishing you love and strength though this ordeal.
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JW's home schooling over-representing
by joey jojo inspeaking to an old elder friend recently about his decision to home school his high school aged kids.. he claims that here in australia, about 30% of the students that log into online classrooms are jw's.
the others are disabled kids - who cant physically attend class and the rest are long distance students.. another generation of under-educated jw kids on the way..
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carla
I know people in the US who are not jw's and take their homeschooling very serious. They opted out of the classrooms when things like drag queens were being welcomed for reading hour with 5-7 year olds, when gender books were supposed to be normal and so forth. Some parents just don't agree with some of that and that is their choice.
That being said there is testing for these kids but that is state by state. Some states are more rigorous than others. In years past I would agree that many home school kids were just plain weird. sorry to say so but that is my opinion. Now there are so many options and programs for home school kids that is not necessarily the case. All depends on the parent I guess.
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Pa. Has Charged 14 Jehovah's Witnesses With CSA Just Since Last Fall ! More Expected.
by Sea Breeze inhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhwk6pxprkg&ab_channel=thethornbushwasblazing%26yetdidn%27tburnup.
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carla
Scully, how horrible, I'm sorry.
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2025**S-147**January** Announcements.
by Atlantis in2025**pdf**s*147**announcements.. here.. https://pdfupload.io/docs/73dbf41c.
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carla
Thank you Petra, must be hard for you, in my thoughts.
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Study Watchtower March 2025 - Ever heard THIS before.........
by BoogerMan in.........during the past 120 years???????????.
page16, par.
9 - "we are convinced that as the gibbering body prophecy indicates, soon - very soon -god’s kingdom will destroy human governments.".
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carla
This is for March of 25? are you kidding? if your not kidding, when will a r & f read or study this?
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Merry Christmas Everyone
by jhine init's that time of year again .
in the words of the bard ( noddy holder ) " it's christmaaas " .
merry christmas everybody .
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carla
Merry Christmas Jan and everybody else!
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I've done it: Christmas Lights Outside
by StephaneLaliberte inlets see if that causes a problem.
i've been inactive for a very long time now (like 10+ years), so, i don't expect to hear anything from it, but my parents are worried i'll get df.
lets see what happens.
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carla
I'm a ubm, I like to puts lights up while he is gone doing jw things. So yeah, like every meeting, fs or whatever in Dec he never knows what he will come home to as far as new Christmas decorations or lights. Bwahahaha, Merry Christmas everybody!
(don't judge, we all have our guilty pleasures)
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Memories of Excessive Laughter
by Sea Breeze injw's are not known for laughter.
there are the rare exceptions.
they are more known for their fear mongering and doomsday scenarios where "the dead shall come to be as manure on the surface of the ground from one end of the earth clear to the other".
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carla
As a ubm I can tell you that once you join the cult much joy and laughter will in fact leave your life as well as those around you. Some things that were previously funny to my jw (pre jw) days now must first be thought out if they are against jw rules somehow, then you can decide if it is funny enough to laugh or not. Well, by that time the joke is gone.
We (all non jw family, never been and he is the only jw anyone actually knows) however find many things to secretly giggle about or laugh later when he isn't around. Such as when he lets swear words fly, when he mistakenly does laugh at something that might be not quite jw approved or when he is a total hypocrite (as jw's are prone to) and the list goes on....