Been a Jdub since I was 5, and woke up to it when I was 7, but being a child had to do what Mother said. Dad was not a Jdub, and still isn't... whew. I finally got up the nerve to leave when I was about 25, and waited ages for my sister and mother and brother to leave, but only my sister has so far. Yay for her. I still suffer from nightmares because of it tho.