I attended meetings and studied with an elder for a while with my DH even though he did not regularly attend before meeting me, he insists the Witnesses are the only true religion. MIL is an active JW and was raised in the religion. Her daughter my SIL is a disfellowshipped JW, but still insists it it the TRUTH. My DH and his brother, my BIL were never baptized but are so brainwashed by their upbringing they refuse to admitt it is wrong, even though they do not go to meetings except the yearly memorial. DH now uses the excuse that even though he believes JW to be the TRUTH he cannot attend meetings because it is too hard with a non believing spouse. I very much resent being a scapegoat.