Had to create a new username! I am a female spouse of a non baptized 30 or so years physically out man. he decided to try to study and get baptized several years ago, "put on a new personality" which was unbearable for us, which lead me to do "for real" research. Ironically at the very beginning of his re-interest, when tying to answer a question I had, HE was the one that first found this website! Although he quickly clicked away after reading a bit, I continued coming back to this site. That was around early 2011 or so.This site and yuku has helped me more than I can express in helping me to understand the mindset of the active JW, the language of the WT, and the struggle of those waking up. My marriage would probably be over if it had not been for these two sites, and all the support, and critical, helpful, and current information and advice I have been given through the years. To be the never-have-believed, "UBM" is a unique situation that only those who have been there can even begin to understand. THANK YOU Simon and your wife, and all who have contributed so positively to my life.