Posts by OrphanCrow

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I'm my favorite type of JW - Double Life

by thedepressedsoul in

the borg's tactics on most jw work.

they put fear into their mind, they guilt trip them and basically make them scared to do anything when they are away from the kingdom hall.

it allows them to control every aspect of their life.

OrphanCrow

Orphan, I congratulate you on your courageous stand and that you are able to see your own courage and un-hypocritical qualities. It's not for me though. And my ass is quite comfortable, thanks for your concern though.

Thank you. Yes, I strive to be non-hypocritical. It is a quality that I value. Courage is an easier quality to pursue. I don't have to strive for that one - maybe it is in my genes.

I am happy to have met you, though - it interests me that there are so many people walking around with masks on and it is not often that people who engage in hypocritical behavior and dishonesty are so open about it. For that, I congratulate you.

No doubt your ass is quite comfortable - from reading the above posts, 16 years of building up a callous on that part of your anatomy would give you a lot of padding.

Good luck. And may those around you never have to confront the reality that they have been interacting with someone who doesn't even exist.

I wish you the best.

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I'm my favorite type of JW - Double Life

by thedepressedsoul in

the borg's tactics on most jw work.

they put fear into their mind, they guilt trip them and basically make them scared to do anything when they are away from the kingdom hall.

it allows them to control every aspect of their life.

OrphanCrow

I also feel hypocrisy is needed/required when getting out of or dealing with this religion. If you're not willing to accept that, it's going to be a lot harder.

I rejected hypocrisy and that is why I left. I didn't want to be hypocritical - I wanted to truly exist, not be an actor in somebody's else's script. I realize that it is a process to 'get out' but getting out means just that - getting out. Your ass must be getting sore from sitting on the fence.

What is 'a lot harder' is to continue to be dishonest - it takes a toll on your personal identity issues - hypocrisy is dishonest - both to yourself and others. Recovery is dependent upon honesty.

The situation you describe is selfish - it is an attempt to retain control, not just of yourself but also of the people around you.

Getting out does not require hypocrisy - it requires courage.

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I'm my favorite type of JW - Double Life

by thedepressedsoul in

the borg's tactics on most jw work.

they put fear into their mind, they guilt trip them and basically make them scared to do anything when they are away from the kingdom hall.

it allows them to control every aspect of their life.

OrphanCrow

depressedsoul: Maybe I'm crazy but it honestly makes me feel good "living a double life". I also think it may be my brains way of wanting to be free.

Ah. It sounds like you have finely tuned and justified your cognitive dissonance. Congratulations.

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Israeli town council cancels Jehovah’s Witnesses event

by Watchtower-Free in

http://www.haaretz.com/news/national/.premium-1.652440.

anti-missionary group yad l'achim had claimed christians were planning a 'mass baptism' and launched protest campaign in ra'anana.. the raanana municipality has canceled an event organized by the jehovahs witnesses in israel, concerned that the religious groups meeting would hurt the feelings of the public.

the event, which should have been held saturday in the raanana municipal sports center, was canceled following pressure by the anti-missionary group yad lachim.

OrphanCrow

And to think the jokehovians are supposed to go there for a two-week mission? Knowing this reaction was probable, they still exposed themselves to this type of treatment. If anything, the missionary trip(s) should have been cancelled.

The 'mission' that the JWs are on by being sent to Israel by the WTS is not about 'spreading the good news'. The WTS is well aware of their legal standing in that country and are deliberately sending 'missionaries' into Israel in order to challenge the laws of that country. It is a political and legal maneuver.

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Interesting point about elders appointment by holy spirit (apostacy case)

by joe134cd in

i was just listening to a jc for apostasy on jwstruggle.

the issue was raised if elders are appointed by holy spirit, then why is there such an issue with sex abuse.

the answer was given (and i thought it was quite true) well jesus was the son of god and he appointed judas under holy spirit, just to have him turn on him.

OrphanCrow

The illogical reasoning that the elder used by comparing Judas to elders who either are child rapists or allow child abuse to happen just blows my mind.

So...Judas being appointed by the Holy Spirit is the same as elders being appointed who tolerate child rapists.

Huh.

I see.

Judas was appointed by the Holy Spirit with an ulterior motive - it was a trick to ensure that the prophecy of the Messiah was fulfilled.

Does that mean that the Holy Spirit has an ulterior motive in appointing rapists to a position of authority or by appointing men who won't deal with the issue? And...pray tell...what would that motive be? What prophecy is being fulfilled that children have to be abused to make sure that god's will is done? Why would god need them to be abused?

Does this mean that the children who get raped are the same as Jesus being killed???

Are the elders comparing children to Jesus? Or did Jesus really like babies, after all?

Ah, what the hey...let's cherry pick the same as the elders do:

15And they were bringing even their babies to Him so that He would touch them.....

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How to Choose a Wife!

by snugglebunny in

jw
friends

back in the day, when my family moved to a new congregation, i fell head over heels with a young sister who was an elder's daughter.

it wasn't long before we were talking about marriage and i was contemplating buying her an engagement ring.

my parents were not happy at all.

OrphanCrow

The WTS seems to have become far more restrictive on their marriage rules than they were back in the day when I was still attending (40+ years ago).

In the congregation I attended, it was not uncommon for JW young people to date 'wordly' people. However, the practice was not encouraged, and if someone was seeing someone 'in the world', the focus was on getting them to convert their prospective partner.

In the late 60s, the head honcho elder's daughter dated an RCMP officer for a length of time before she announced their intention to marry. Her super duper zealous father went into high gear, put the poor fellow through his baptism paces in record time, and then drove several hours to some location obscure location to get him dunked the week before they got married. We all got to see the groom walk down the aisle of the Kingdom Hall in the Queen's red serge uniform.

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Why the JW's mental image of Paradise is a pipe dream

by Sour Grapes in

yesterday during the witchtower study, every one was.

talking about how wonderful paradise will be with no food.

shortages, perfect weather, no pollution, no disease, and be.

OrphanCrow

vidiot: I've said this before, but in the (admittedly unlikely) event that the WTS were given control over a small country in the present day, I guarantee you that within a decade, democracy would be all but nonexistent, any form of alternative sexual expression would be outlawed, creationism would be mandated in schools, DFed people would be stripped of citizenship and imprisoned or deported, and convicted "apostates" would be sentenced to death without possibility of appeal or reprieve.

And...they would ban any other religion from entering their country to try and convert their followers.

And...they would strip away all First Amendment rights - all the concepts that the WTS fights for in a court of law would be non-existent.

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