rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
... ... LT
So is there a "community responsibility" issue in the raising of kids, then?
If so, do you think there may be a reasonable reason for the enculturalisation of pair-bonding?
not a community responsability but just at first anyway a Parental responsability
and what is pair-bonding ???
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oy oy oy !!! and BTW : Six (just in case of missunderstanding - but I know your smarter than that !!!)
rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
Heathen,
I didn't say I don't love Six ... oy oy oy ... Six is still a part of my life as a very good friend, because by chance we shared more than sex !!!
(but you are right in most of your statements actually)
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LT let me think about what you've said ... or maybe someone can answer to it
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ATTENTION WARNING :
(I'm a bit troubled cause what I'm saying here might be always take as related to Six ... NO NO NO - Six have not being the only man in my life)
rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
Setting aside a situation that is obviously damaging to kids or partners either physically, emotionally or psychologically, do you see pair bonding as being a prefered state in which to raise kids?
Other than that, are you saying that "anything goes"?
that's what we think today ... but I've heard about a south indian community living like that ... the people and the kids are not screewed up (they didn't say anything that was saying that) that is just the way they live ... the kids are raised by the community mother and father included ... but actually our society is based on LOTS OF BARRIERES !
A man an a woman/man can have 3 and kids with different fathers/mothers (SEE MARTINIQUE it's very common there) some are good fathers/mothers some are not (and the way they take care of their own kids even all of them together from time to time depends of the personne) ... it all about not having kids with bad father/mother (our responsibility)
(again I'm not there yet and I see what you mean) but it's maybe only true because we have been raised in OUR KIND OF COMMUNITY ... ) the reason why we are that touched about those actually details, is maybe a made up feeling/statement (cause our ways do not prevent us from suffering in anyway) but the indian community actually freed themself from those things ... they didn't talk about their feeling though they just talked about there ways ... So I don't know much actually about that.
Also you have every kind of mothers and fathers :
rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
Also about the kids ... less their mother and father would be pressured for a reason or an other more time and things they might like to put in their relationship with their kids ... lots of kids lives without their mother or father already they are not more or less screwed up than kids which living in a house where there parents are fighting everyday or are not happy to the point that maybe everybody would finally feel miserable about the situation and have a wrong picture of what love is etc ...
rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
So do you see relationships turning more into a bunch of friends, who occasionally fulfill the need of sex without obligation?
No ... everybody should be able to find what they need or wait for it (instead of faking it - and then crying about the troubles related)
What about where kids are involved?
the kids should be loved anyway ... We women do manage (we proved it) you guys can manage ALONE anyway (it's not about having too much kids anyway - we should think about the fact that we might have to raised them alone.
... I'm sure that not having a man or a woman who bother everyday (because you or he/she don't love you that much, and maybe won't help that much just because of that) you can have 3 kids and still have fun once in while with somebody which make you feel good why not the same nice guy/girl or the nice guy/girl of the day (LOL) ...
Also you have couples who are very good friends but very bad together in sex ... well (so they can stay friend even living together) you have couples who have good sex together but that's it (well just have sex together) ... I mean it would be way more simple if we wouldn't put so much barriers in our heads.
I'm not there yet actually personnaly (I stand on engagement and no bullshiting and bybye if it doesn't work with no regrets) ... it's just that I feel like evoluating would be way more simple ...
do ugly people have a right to normal lives - relationships, marriage, families?.
about half of us must be below "average" attractiveness.
maybe xjws are on average more gorgeous than the general population.. what can you tell about a person by their facial beauty or lack of it?
Ball
which means what a funny lot us humans are.
Yeah its all about that !
rely on chips
wanted to poste this topic a few days ago but waited a bit ?
i?ve talked with a new friend and it was a very interesting subject to get in and i feel like to go further on it with all of you, about something different from our bases cultures that might lead to analyse every kind of relationships actually :
In your initial post you mentioned the enculturisation of pair-bonding.
Are you seeing a reversal of this, in the current climate of individualism?
I don't know for most of people but the society is running to be that way ... The more I get older and the more I feel sure about the only thing that matter is the present ... there is nothing you can be sure of about tomorrow ... and you can't count on others and there is no reason to stay with anybody you don't love anymore and who don't love you anymore ... or worst who never loved you (convienent make up couples)...
also you've got the other kind of trouble = after effect (very common) Today you love this one, he/she bullshit you, you don't love him/her anymore and ooops then he/she loves you ... too late ... (just an example) some people are attracted by rejection - or only feel concerne when they are about to lose the other one for good) it's just a pity but there nothing you can do against that, and love is not a stupid game ...
That's why maybe not being bound in anyway is an insurance somehow ... today it's ok = well good / today it's bad = bybuy ... it's sounds more simple and based on REALITY and instead of taking an insurance (in marrying or get anybody engage with you) well you just take care (to not screw or not being screwed as an everyday job).
you can't win or lose in love in fact ... it's just true or not (if you know where you stand and can act coherent about it then you win - even if you lose the guy or the girl). And well there is still a way to stay good friends so (if nobody is trying to manipulating the other one to not having him/her looking somewhere else) ... way more cool and simple.
do ugly people have a right to normal lives - relationships, marriage, families?.
about half of us must be below "average" attractiveness.
maybe xjws are on average more gorgeous than the general population.. what can you tell about a person by their facial beauty or lack of it?
Ball,
A seperate point, I wouldn't consider myself ugly, but one of the many lessons I learnt as a young lad leaving the org, was after chasing a woman for months who made excuses, and "wasn't that kind of girl" only to see her hop in bed for a one night stand with my friend who looked like Tom Cruise. What was the lesson now? ... errr, oh yes, life's a bitch.
Ooops wrong subject (somehow) ... that's when people are misslead by beauty (very common) ... That still doesn't mean she's a bitch, just ugly somehow ...
Men and women most of time put them all in one room and if there is only one (for instance) so called beauty male or female every male or female will workship only that one !!! or playing like they didn't see or like that one acting like I don't care at all (both are acting stupid) you don't know what you miss in (*) workshiping everybody to see clearly
if there is 2 or more (well same thing but they will acting to make one jaleous of the other) even more stupid ... LOL ...
Eddited to add : (*) put NOT
"revelation.
grand climax at hand" (((yeah right.
"worldwide security under the prince of peace"(((except it was really under satan.
Send them to HappyDad ... he will sold them on E-bay ... or sell them on E-bay ... and then send gifts to yours
there is a new fad presentation going around, a simple but loaded question.
"what would it take for you to be interested in the bible?
of course you can't say no, and if you say, "nothing" the followup question is "why?
Izzy2Cool !!!
