Hey everyone.
My post count indicates I'm new, but I've been lurking here regularly for at least a year now.
Quick and simple: should I write a DA letter or not?
My wife and I left physically well over a year ago (relocating to a new province helped expedite our departure - I recommend this to anyone having a hard time with "the move"), and we went from "What if they DF us?" to "What if we DA'd?" to "Let's DA!" But now, my attitude is: "DA or DF. Who cares?"
We've both moved on from all the fear and guilt that was once lumped on us, but she still wants to DA, her thinking being: "We're not going out like that! When it's announced from the platform, I want all our (former) friends and family know that this decision was made by us alone."
I see her point. But isn't going through the effort of writing a DA latter still following their rules?
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