To: JanH (edited to add data)

by Amazing 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    In my response to JanH below, where I show I have added material, you will find that the numbers are very interesting.

    Hi JanH: I broke this into a new thread because I want to make sure you see my response to your comment on my other post about the numbers of victims of pedophiles. Also, while you make some good points, I think that some misconceptions needs to be highlighted.

    You said,

    "Sorry, these numbers seems totally absurd. They fail even the most basic sanity check."

    In none of my posts have I held up the number of 300+ victims per molester as an absolute number. I myself have openly stated that I have a hard time grasping this. I have stated that I am not 'hanging my hat' on this number.

    I used the number 300+ based on what an attorney told me. he had used this data in court. He has been in the news for successfully prosecuting such cases in civil litigation. It is the largest average number I have learned of, and to me represents the upper limit of the potential scope. Most sites and data I have reviewed leans toward 100 to 120 victims as average. My real point in this exercise is to try and not just get a handle on the scope, but primarily to show possibilities and that even if each JW molester, about 5000+, in the organization only had one victim, the scope in my opinion is still high, not because the number is of itself unreasonable, but because much of it, if not most, could have been identified and possibly porevented ... were it not for Watch Tower policy interfering with such exposure and acountability.

    You continued,

    "Surely, there are a large number of "occasional molesters" who do it once or twice and never again, and even more who do it over a longer time with one or some very few victims."

    This view is not uncommon, but reflects a lack of understanding or child molesters. A child molester rarely has just an 'occasional' victim, just once or twice unless they are caught near the beginning of their pedophile career, which is uncommon. Child molesters get away with this crime for years and years on average before getting caught. And their sick behavior does not stop with just one or two victims.

    You continued,

    "The classic predator who seeks out strangers to abuse is not the typical molestor. The fact that most victims were criminalized by a relative (or, not unausually, a step-parent) is evidence for this. People only have so many relatives."

    Again, this view, while common, does not reflect reality. Old uncle John who dicked a couple of nephews is a classic impression, but fails the test of what really happens. Old uncle John might eventually get caught or sued by the nephews, but the scope of vicims being limited to his relatives is not feasible. These perverts need thier jollies like a narcotic fix, and will seek out sexual gratification in many ways, such as, but not limited to, porn movies of sex with minors, underage hookers, janitors in the bathrooms at schools, daycare centers where young ones are around them all day long, children of visiting families and visiting friends, in religious settings. The pastor of our church, post-JW days, used church outtings with families at retreats to get to the children.

    To conclude that most molesters stick with a couple of relatives, such as one's own children is of itself absurd.

    You noted,

    "PS to Amazing: Your "satanic pedophile ring" story is similar to a dangerous urban legend, connected to various media scares in the 70s and 80s, that later proved to be unfounded. See e.g."

    My comment about this has to do with one of my Justice Series where the man molested the children of a good friend of mine, and it was feared that he may have molested my children while they visited at their house. The man was arrested and it was later learned that he belonged to a Satanic ring for years while being a JW. I know the man personally, and know of his arrest. I have tried to get his court records, and other informatin on his registration as a sex offender.

    Since I do not live any longer in the State of California, they will not share such information. In that State, you have to be a resident and living in proximity of a registered sex offender, and show cause that you have reason to know, such as if you have minor children who could be harmed. Since my children are grown, and I have no minors under my care, and I do not live in that State, I cannot get the information. I have asked a media person who interviewed me to get it, as they often have license under the 2nd Ammendment. I gave the name of the offender to that media person, and am waiting for a response.

    Currently, I am also aware of an ongoing court case in New Jersey where a pedophile ring of JWs has been exposed, with the molesters on trial in a civil suit. SilentLambs may have the specifics of this case. I have talked with SilentLambs about this case a couple fo months ago. So, 'dangerous urban legend' in the 1970s and 1980s may have existed, but that is not related to the above situations I have described. Just because a legend exists does not discredit real events that may bear similarities.

    Finally, of the molesters I have personally known, none have only had one or two victims, confined to relatives. This could be the case in some situations. Unfortunately, sadly, this is not the norm. Not that even such a limited scope is good, but it would be better than the reality that is known. Ideally, it would be good it identify molesters early on, and prevent them from victimizing anyone, but until science can discover a ratinal and legal way to do this, we are left to discover pedophiles when and where possible, often many years into their careers, and many victims being thus harmed.

    Just how many victims? The jury is still out, but I do submit that the numebrs are high. The number 300+ also correlated to the national ratios of victims to pedophiles. That is not to say it is a hard and fast bonafide proven number, but rather, it is a number that has some merit, but may be significantly adjusted over time.

    Even bringing the average down to 10 victims as some suggest still allows for a projected 5,000+ JW pedophiles to have harmed 50,000+ JW victims. This is still a serious number that can reap many bad consequences in the religion and in the general community for decades to come. Hope the above helps. - Amazing

  • JanH
    JanH

    Thanks, Amazing.

    But I'd like to see actual references to credible sources supporting your figures, also some supporting your assertion that the close family abuse is not typical. This runs counter to everything I've heard before.

    - Jan
    --
    Faith, n. Belief without evidence in what is told by one who speaks without knowledge, of things without parallel. [Ambrose Bierce, The Devil´s Dictionary, 1911]

  • JanH
    JanH

    Ok, a quick Net search was all I had time to do now. See Canadian health service "fact sheet" on http://www.hc-sc.gc.ca/hppb/familyviolence/html/csaeng.html

    Most offenders are not strangers to their victims. In most cases, they are well known to their victims. Approximately 25 percent of offenders are adolescents.
    ...
    Some offenders have abused more than 70 children before any of the victims disclosed the abuse. In cases in which one offender has abused a large number of victims, the abused children are more likely to be male.
    ...
    Most sexual abuse takes place in the context of an ongoing relationship between the abuser and the child.

    This clearly runs counter to your assertions, even if this short summary is not detailed. If you have sources saying the opposite, I would appreciate seeing them.

    - Jan
    --
    Faith, n. Belief without evidence in what is told by one who speaks without knowledge, of things without parallel. [Ambrose Bierce, The Devil´s Dictionary, 1911]

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Hi JanH:

    You said,

    'This clearly runs counter to your assertions, even if this short summary is not detailed. If you have sources saying the opposite, I would appreciate seeing them."

    How does your source run counter to my assertions? Your source cites 70 victims before getting exposed. This is far hager than the 5 to 10 many assert. And, I have repeatedly acknowledged that the number 300+ is from but one reasonable source, and I made mention of other sources with lower numbers of 100 to 120.

    Second, in your original comments I believe you mention that the victims are 'relatives.' Hence my discussion of the Old Uncle John example. Whereas the Canadian cource you cite talks about not being stangers, but having some kind of relatinship with the victim, regardless of their status as a 'relative.' This is exactly how most pedophiles operate:

    Example: Janitor at school gets to know the boys first, establishes trust, bonds with them, and then seduces them.

    Example: Day Care Center worker plays with the kids, plays games, goes for walks, builds bonds, trust, and then gets them secluded and has sex with them. Some molesters do not build relatinships, because they use toddlers and even babies as little more than glorified masturbation machines.

    Example: Teacher eyes girls in class, gets them to stay after to help with questions and homework. Builds trust and that 'special' bond. gets students to visit at home or go out to the park or zoo for 'educational' purposes.

    It goes on and on. I never asserted that victims were strangers, but that they were not necessarily 'relatives'. Perhaps this was a miscommunication between us.

    I gave you SilentLambs name to contact about the New Jersey ring. The molester in California that I cited must wait until the media person gets back to me.

    The studies that I refer to do not really dsiagree with your cited source except in 100-120 vs your 70 victims.

    Other references I have made, such as the attorney I talked to will have to wait until after the NBC Dateline program airs. - Amazing

  • JanH
    JanH

    Amazing,

    Read it again. According to this source, only "some" had as many as 70 victims, as opposed to the majority being "not strangers" to victim. This clearly will take the average way below 70, but without more detailed facts, any guess is as good as any other. Also, longer relationships were the norm, not casual attacks as you seem to claim. Children only have so many relatives and close contacts. Most children only have a handful of adult regular contacts, including relatives.

    I still ask you to provide serious references. Hardly any topic is more prone to hysteria and exaggarations, and that even includes scholars who should have known better. Keep it sober, Amazing, even thought it is a very emotional field.

    - Jan
    --
    Faith, n. Belief without evidence in what is told by one who speaks without knowledge, of things without parallel. [Ambrose Bierce, The Devil´s Dictionary, 1911]

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Hi JanH: Thanks for the follow-up. You noted,

    "I still ask you to provide serious references. Hardly any topic is more prone to hysteria and exaggarations, and that even includes scholars who should have known better. Keep it sober, Amazing, even thought it is a very emotional field."

    I am with you 100% on this. One of the points made at BRCi is to exercise caution regarding this issue. Once the power of accountability and perhaps civil justice is placed in the hands of vicitms and ex-JWs to take this issue to the public, it can explode in our faces unless we used such caution.

    As for sources, I will have to pull up the web site that cited one average of 117 that I recall. As for the attorney, again, that must wait until after Dateline program. I will call him next week and see if he can provide his documented sources, so that I can provide something sooner and not have to name him as the source right now.

    Amazing

  • JanH
    JanH

    Amazing,

    Thanks again for your comment.

    As for sources, I will have to pull up the web site that cited one average of 117 that I recall.
    Yes, I have seen this statistic. It seems to me this is the number of average victims claimed for an (alleged) abuser by the US prosecutor. It may be the number of alleged victims of a convicted abuser, or the actual number a convicted abuser has been convicted for abusing. All these are very different things. Without knowing which, it is pretty useless.

    At any rate, even the number of victims of known offenders does not tell us anything about how many victims the average abuser has. Alas, very few abusers are caught and brought to justice. And, naturally, there is a clear relationship between the number of victims and the chance of both being caught and found guilty. So, the statistic is seriously skewed by nature, and cannot be used to argue how many victims the average abuser has.

    This is the kind of pitfalls in statistics that social scientists work with all the time, and quite a few of them very badly, I have to say.

    - Jan
    --
    Faith, n. Belief without evidence in what is told by one who speaks without knowledge, of things without parallel. [Ambrose Bierce, The Devil´s Dictionary, 1911]

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Hi JanH: Edited to add quoted material and some additional comments. Here is one source that I find important and bonafide. You can go to: http://www.crimelibrary.com/serial/pedophiles/5.htm

    The above website states in its first section, second chapter:

    "The second classification of sexual offender is defined as a preferential child molester. These offenders have a sexual preference for children and usually maintain these desires throughout their lives. Preferential child molesters can have an astounding number of victims and these crimes can remain undiscovered for many years. In 1995, a child molestation case in Texas caused a national uproar when the suspect was due to be released from prison after serving a 6 year sentence for the rape of a six-year-old boy. He told the police that he got away with abusing over 240 children before getting caught for molesting a single child and if released, would do it again[2]. One long-term study of hundreds of sex offenders found that the pedophile child molester committed an average of 281 acts with 150 partners. These types of offenders wreak havoc upon society far out of proportion to their numbers.

    The preferential child molester exhibits distinct patterns of behavior that are common among his kind. They will seduce children, as we will see later, by buying gifts and appealing to their emotional weakness. This requires the offender to develop a friendship with the child or utilize an existing relationship with the victim. In over 90% of the rapes of children less than 12 years old, the offender knew the victim (U.S. Department of Justice)."

    The last sentance seems to suggest to me that 90% of the offenders are of the 'Preferential' type, and thus fall into the averages of having 150 victims. Here is an important point made on that web site: Of the 'Preferential' pedophiles, they will have an average of 150 victims, and 281 acts. Thus they may only have sex once to twice on average with the same victim. This suggests that they like to move on from one victim to another. In one Texas case, the convicted man admitted to molesting 240 victims. This last case seems to at least show that the number the attorney gave me is not really absurd.

    Important: The above web site was created by the Polly Glass Foundation. I think my oldest daughter, who posts here, may have met Polly. When this case happened we had already moved north to Oregon. So, we were very interested in this case given my children knew or knew of the particular child who was molested and murdered.

    Here are some additional recommended sites:

    www.childlures.com is a program that informs children, parents and educators of safety issues regarding children and adults and also offers an Internet safety pact that your child can read and sign.

    www.cyberangels.org, promotes child safety and abuse prevention methods.

    www.enough.org is a website that warns adults and children of the threat of pornography on the web.

    www.pedowatch.org is one of the oldest web sites in existence that works in conjunction with law enforcement to combat pornography and child seducing on the Internet.

    www.prevent-abuse-now.com, is the home for Inside Pandora’s Box, a wealth of information regarding children and Internet access.

    www.troopers.state.ny.us, is the home for the Internet Crimes

    Amazing

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