Again from my research, from the paper, Cults and Families:
Paraphrase: If people in the cult quest authority and go public with doubts or opinions, then others will attack and possibly expel them for their outside thinking. But if they withold their private thoughts, they feel decietful and inadequate and are torn in inner battles. "Because they are torn in these ways, it is exceedingly difficult for them to provide emotional and cognitive guidance to children" The moral structures of harmful cults are replete with contradictions and unsubstanciated idological assertions, often involving racism, sexism, homophobia, or xenophobia. " If children who develop in these envronments leave their groups and enter diverse, multicultural and more open societies, then they may face major adjustment and difficulties because they have no precult moral system to which they can return"