i have some really crappy news my friend, J, the jehovah's witness i had dated off and on was in a motorcycle accident last night. he's pretty bad off. broke both legs..lost a lot of blood. from what i heard, he's stable now but he's got a ways to go before he's in the clear. if you're of the praying persuasion, id appreciate it if you'd remember him in your prayers..if not, id appreciate it if you'd send some positive thoughts his way. thanks everyone.