I'm not a Jehovah Witness but my ex-wife is and so is her family there very devoted to the "truth" and her parents run her life and tried to run mine as well as my children's.
I'm a wheelchair user and i don't live as local as I'd like. So far her parents have killed the marriage with pushing her to take our children to all meetings and conventions, using many excuses why she should take the children and as she is a devoted Jehovah Witness she listen's more to them then she ever did to me. I.E. Not letting me look after our children while she went to the meetings and knocking on doors trying to get people to listen she'd take them saying they want to see grandad/granny or the other children. This also disrupted there sleep pattern as they were normally in bed for 7pm every night of the week except on her meeting nights when they would arrive home at about 10:30pm half asleep and then rushed off to bed. Now my son who is at nursery school has days off to go to the conventions which I find totally wrong!
We are now divorced and i have access to the children through the solicitors BUT.... In reality she has only let me see my children 3 times in the last year when she wanted to let me see them under her demands. which have let me see them for just a few hours each time where she has stated the meeting and time. I'm looking for any information to help he get proper access to have them for weekend visits as seeing them for just a few hours when it's suits her is messing up the children. My eldest who is 4 has started bed wetting when i phone up to speak to him and his 2 year old sister since I last saw them at the end of May. When i speak to him 3 times a week he's asking to come and see me but he's being told by his mother he cant he's to small, your not well, your sister is going through the terrible 2's, Etc.Every time I speak to her to try and get her to let me have my children for a weekend she comes up with different excuses up to the 3 times I phone and chat with my children each week. She must see the mental harm she is doing to them as they will if not already know I'm trying everything I can to get to see them and spend some quality time with the both of them.
This is slowly destroying me inside as I'm wondering if I'm harming them by wanting as much as my son to see each other he ask's her to let him come and stay with me but she just comes out with another excuse not to let him see me.
What is she scared of????
Is she worried that they wont want to return????
Is it she thinks they will not want her faith????
If anyone has any similar experiences or help they can offer me I'd be very great full and any legal points you know of i can hand over to my legal team would be greatly appreciated.