When I was about 17 there was a Elders son I used to hang out with. He was 16 but close to my age. His family was a kool aid drinking cult followers. He had told me a story and I have no reason to doubt it was true and is on the lighter side of abuse. Not trying to make light of it. But it was not rape.
He told me that when some of their family friends who also were big kool aid JWs came to visit that the 6yo girl was sitting on his lap when they were driving back from going out to dinner. He said he would put his finger on her vagina and pull it up and say sit up your falling down to cover his feeling her.
I know him well and I have no reason to believe he is a child molester. But no one knows anyone thoroughly. I had forgotten about it until watching one of the JW child abuse videos it triggered in my mind. He is and has been an elder for many years now. I would not say he was not inclined that way but I just never have gotten any kind of feeling that this was more than raging hormones.
Not trying to make excuses for his behavior but I also don't want to say he is evil. Do not get me wrong I worked with him for many years, and we broke up our business because I started to question the cult. Thoughts?