Not soo boring and "cultish" life eh...

by aikido1914 2 Replies latest jw friends

  • aikido1914
    aikido1914

    This boy died doing what he loved'
    Basketball player's teammates, coach, mother struggle to make sense of his untimely death
    By NICOLE SWEENEY
    Staff Writer

    It was Lee Cannon's daily after-school routine: study hall, weight lifting and then a few games of pickup basketball at Trenholm Park before dinner.

    But that routine went horribly awry Monday night, when the 17-year-old co-captain of A.C. Flora High's basketball team collapsed on the court and died in his friends' arms.

    "I sat there and watched him fade away," said best friend and co-captain Raymond Robinson, who wore Cannon's student ID badge around his neck Tuesday. A photo of the two of them was taped to his chest.

    Richland County Coroner Gary Watts said Cannon died from cardiac arrhythmia, or an irregular heartbeat, caused by a coronary artery that went into Cannon's heart muscle instead of around the heart or through fatty tissue. Watts said the unusual birth defect is difficult to detect.

    Cannon's mother, Deborah, said her son had a physical every year and showed no signs of problems. "That's the thing I just don't get," she said.

    Cannon's unexpected death has shaken his teammates.

    "Some of them are afraid," said coach Don Bell. "They all love playing basketball, and this boy died doing what he loved."

    Cannon was known as a smiling and laughing young man who befriended everyone he met.

    "He loved to joke," his mother said. "He kept you laughing all the time."

    A "B" honor roll student, he helped lead a study hall for his teammates after school and also served as a teacher's aide for Bell.

    "He's been my right-hand man," Bell said Tuesday, his eyes shining with tears.

    Bell stopped by Trenholm Park Monday night to check on the boys, his usual habit. "You guys need to behave," he joked.

    "I got this," Cannon called out.

    The students were nearing the end of their second game when Cannon called out, "Hey, man," stumbled and fell to the ground, Robinson said.

    Robinson and others rushed to Cannon, holding his hands and cradling his head while they waited for EMS to arrive.

    "They had to grow up quick last night," Bell said. "Those boys became men last night."

    The news quickly spread through the student body, and more than 50 students gathered Monday night in Providence Hospital's parking lot. Some sobbing, some stunned into silence, the diverse crowd was a snapshot of the many students who considered Cannon a friend.

    "Hispanic, white, black, boys and girls .?.?. he bridged all the gaps at this school," Bell said.

    Bell broke the news of Cannon's death to the students waiting outside the hospital.

    "The hardest thing I've ever done in my life was tell those kids that Lee was gone," he said.

    The mood at A.C. Flora Tuesday was somber. The flag was at half-staff. "Remember Lee" was spelled out in black letters on the school's sign.

    After the morning's pledge of allegiance, principal Marty Martin dedicated a moment of silence to Cannon.

    A.C. Flora brought in additional counselors to meet with students.

    Cannon's vivacious manner frequently made him the center of attention. Just last week, the basketball team went out to a barbecue joint, where Cannon had everyone in hysterical laughter with his stories.

    "He was never serious except between the lines," Bell said. "He was serious about his basketball."

    On the court, he was a hard worker and fierce competitor. "He was "always running, hustling," Robinson said.

    "If you had 12 guys like Lee Cannon, you would win the state championship just because of hard work and attitude and because good things are supposed to happen to good people," Bell said.

    Cannon was raised a Jehovah's Witness, and his faith was important to him, his mother said. He also volunteered in the summer with Habitat for Humanity.

    Robinson, who had known Cannon since the sixth grade, described him as a funny, loving guy who loved to attend movies and talk on the phone.

    He loved to quote from his favorite movies and do impersonations, said 17-year-old Jared Altus, a teammate.

    Altus said he'll miss seeing Cannon "smiling and laughing and joking all the time.

    "I'm just glad I got to know him."

    I read post whereby different onesmanipulate others into thinking JWS have a rough time growing up because of religion but obviously its not rligion but how you had to be raised in your thinking, its not a JW thing its a parent influence, Times have moved on towards more open understanding about what kids can do and i really recommend ones on this board do the same.... Peace

  • anglise
    anglise

    Get real Akido

    This child would have died if he needed a blood tranfusion for this heart defect and you know it so dont pretend that the WTBTS is anything other than a high control group which veers from the ridiculous to the the downright dangerous with it's absurd practises.

    When you have been in it a lifetime and seen people die following its deadly rules then feel free come here and try to convince us of its benefits to humanity.

    Until then lift your head from the sand do some research.

    Anglise

  • Soledad
    Soledad

    aikido remember that God deals with us as individuals, and that each one of us experiences God in ways that are very unique. obviously this child didn't need to abide by strict and rigid rules created by an organization to experience God in his life, therefore he was free to do what he loved most. may he rest in peace.

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