Bullycide...

by Xandria 9 Replies latest jw friends

  • Xandria
    Xandria

    I can understand how this child felt. It is really sad, his mom could of cleaned up and helped him more. If cleaning was and issue .. perhaps she could have hired help, asked for volunteers etc.

    X.

    MERIDEN, Conn. - A woman was convicted Monday of contributing to the suicide of her 12-year-old son, who hanged himself in his closet with a necktie after being picked on for months at school over his bad breath and body odor.

    Judith Scruggs, 52, was found guilty of one count of risk of injury to a minor for creating a filthy home that prosecutors said prevented J. Daniel Scruggs from improving his hygiene. She faces up to 10 years in prison when she is sentenced next month.

    The six-member jury cleared Scruggs of a second charge that accused her of failing to provide her son with proper medical and psychological care. She also was acquitted on a cruelty charge.

    Legal experts said the case may mark the first time a parent has been convicted of contributing to a child's suicide.

    Prosecutors said they took no joy in bringing charges against a grieving mother, but felt a jury should decide whether Scruggs' actions contributed to the boy's death.

    "There are those who may disagree, but it is our position that parents are responsible for the care and welfare of their children and must ensure their basic medical, emotional and psychological needs are satisfied," prosecutor James Dinnan said.

    Scruggs refused to comment as she left the courthouse. Defense attorney Reese Norris called the verdict an injustice.

    "I hope the public will have an outcry that someone could be could be convicted of any charge ... in association with the suicide of her child," he said.

    Judith Scruggs acknowledged Daniel would sometimes have body odor or bad breath and would soil himself to get out of going to school. She said she frequently told Daniel to take showers, but said she could not force him to do so.

    Scruggs told police Daniel was afraid of bullies who had kicked and punched him, and he kept knives in his closet out of fear before killing himself in January 2002.

    Prosecutors presented evidence that showed there was barely room to move around her home because of clothes, boxes, papers and other debris that littered the floor. The kitchen was full of dirty dishes and spills and stains. The bathroom floor and the bathtub were covered with clothes, and the toilet, sink and tub were soiled.

    Prosecution witnesses also described a foul odor. To get an idea what it was like, one officer suggested sticking your head in a hamper full of dirty clothes and whiffing garbage at the same time.

    "I definitely didn't think she did enough. You just don't let things go," juror Vinny Giardina told The Associated Press after the verdict.

    Norris said prosecutors never provided evidence linking the condition of the home to the suicide. He portrayed Judith Scruggs as a loving single mother who worked two jobs ? one full-time as a teacher's aide in Daniel's school and the other part-time at a Wal-Mart.

    Norris had called the boy's death a case "Bullycide." The suicide spawned a Connecticut law mandating schools to report bullies to authorities.

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    It seems the solution for everything is jail time. Gotta make someone pay. Dirty house, go to jail. Come on!!??

    How many yrs will the bullies get?

    SS

  • jwbot
    jwbot

    This makes me so sad. Children can be so cruel to eachother. I hope those kids that picked on him feel like shit and totally responsible. Schools seem to do nothing about bullies.

  • SanFranciscoJim
    SanFranciscoJim
    How many yrs will the bullies get?

    The bullies should be charged with first degree manslaughter at the very minimum, and charged as adults.

    Different kids react in different ways to bullying. Some kill themselves. Others borrow Daddy's rifle and shoot up the schools.

    In either case, the instigating bullies should be charged as co-conspirators.

    This vicious cruelty must stop!

  • DevonMcBride
    DevonMcBride

    A few years ago my cousin sued the school district because bullies were picking on her son and after many complaints to the principal, nothing was done. She won the case and the school district paid to send him to a private school.

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    San

    I mostly agree. The bullies need some disciplinary action, defintely. The school also carries some responsibility. The mother obviously has some mental/emotional problems of her own, for which she needs treatment. If they are putting her in jail , then they will need to be putting a lot of people who have dirty homes in jail.

    SS

  • heathen
    heathen

    I agree that seems awefully absurd to punnish someone that was only responsible for not buying some breath mints and deoderant . If I were her I would consider suing the parents of the bullies and the school for not trying to settle the problems before they left emotional scars . I've seen first hand how teachers and such will turn their backs on these types of issues concerning student rights and abuse . I think the schools need to step in where there are bullies .

  • SanFranciscoJim
    SanFranciscoJim

    Agreed, SS. Those in positions of authority at the school district should also be held criminally liable if they are aware of the bullying and refuse to take action.

    As regards the boy and his mother, surely at least one of the teachers must have noticed that things were abnormal in that household. This should have been reported, and a social worker assigned to the case.

    Unfortunately, in cases like this, the "shoulda-woulda-couldas" always are considered after the damage has been done.

  • SheilaM
    SheilaM

    Yes, she should have provided a clean home. I worked a full time and two part time jobs and Thunder worked full time in the earlly 90's. Our home may not have been decorated very cute but it was always CLEAN and we had tons of animals.

    NO EXCUSE to raise a child in that enviroment YUCK BUT...is she culpable of his suicide by not cleaning I think she is more culpable by NOT taking care of the bully situation. She was an aide in the school, she should have been taking care of the friggin bullies and also teaching her son hygiene. And why are the bullies not also as guilty then???

  • BeautifulGarbage
    BeautifulGarbage

    I work at an elementary school, and a tough one at that, and I make no bones to those kids that I will absolutely make the roof fall in on their heads if they even attempt to bully, tease, or beat-up anyone and I find out about it. I will not tolerate that sort of behavior on my watch.

    My daughter has been bullied a couple of times, and I made it clear to the school that I would make MT. ST. Helen's eruption look like a pimple popped if she was ever bothered by the same kid again.

    A boy I went to high school with blew his head off with a revolver because of kids bullying him until he just couldn't take it anymore.

    How very tragic this whole situation

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