OK, I am not now, nor will I ever be a JW. so ive been with my gf for over a year now and she has finally woke up to how destructive the cult was to her! She turned to it more and had private tutors? and that sort before she met me. At first she hated when I talked about what a shit hold backward religion JW is. days would go by where she wouldn't speak to me, fortunately for me she loved talking to me so it didn't last long!! XD anyway over the course of a few months we talked about it, she got annoyed that I was researching random sites on the internet (which I was) so I then turned to JW.org to fuel this fire which would lead her to hate the watchtower! I remember one day talking about disfellowship and how odd it was, she became s wound up by it she exclaimed "why shouldn't they be punished for deceiving Jehovah" or something very close to that. she realised what she said what had become engrained in her for so long a cult which taught its members to "hate" and called it love.... there was many a time since then we talked about jehovahs beliefs, I came across something very good. it was where they cant donate receive blood, but if you read the bible it also states in the same manner that you cant injest blood of an ANIMAL NOR THE FAT which many jw do, slowly he began to realise what complete bullshit it truly was, she didn't even know who Charles Taze Russel was, I then learned that jw arnt even allowed to research who creatd the cult, for obvious reasons....she recently visited her grandparents who are old style jw and that was really the nail in the coffin what bastards they were and they treated her so bad because of her mental illness.....im surprised they havnt preformed some sort of exorcism on her, even when she was young there was a cover up which she does not know about!!! (yes its got to do with rape).
but we are currently separated by thousands of miles :/ and it pains my heart so much knowing the distance between us.
she clearly told me that if she moved she would no longer associate with the cult, she hasn't attended a meeting in a number of months either but she doesn't open up to her family because it would just be no different than throwing a can into a blazing house. she already is bullied by her mother whom she is fully afraid of.
Have you any suggestions of what to do next on my part? anyway I can help? anything ive done wrong?