What do you think about this. Because the GB controls it's members by F.O.G does that affect former members to be easily manipulated by self serving people as they start a new life outside the bOrg? The definition of a manipulator according to the Cambridge Dictionary is a person who controls people to their own advantage, often unfairly or dishonestly. Sounds familiar doesn't it?
This has been going on with me recently, starting even before I left and I didn't see it as that until this past week. I've given away my money so very little was left me for me month after month. Clothes, dishes, food, running errands etc. I didn't even mind, I thought I was being kind. Others have been pointing this out to me and I made excuses for the person every time. Now, I'm exhausted, I see that the situation will not change, the person won't change and I am done. I'm recognizing that the "truth", lol is that I'm the one who allowed it to happen in the first place! 😕
I had an epiphany (a favorite word of mine) that I've been trained to accept a toxic person because that what the WTS did and still does to those in. I let it kind of situation happen again without recognizing it! I don't plan to let it occur in the future.
So, had this kind of "experience" happened to you? What did you do to prevent it from happening again?