Porn Discussion Overheard at Witness Gathering

by JWTom 28 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Saethydd
    Saethydd

    I only have my personal experience to draw from here, but after I started watching porn as a teenager I tried to do the “right thing” and get help from my parents and later the local elders, which led to me being privately reproved (the things I watched were considered abhorrent by JW standards, however, from what I’ve read one could get away with watching normal porn infrequently without facing any real consequences depending on their elder body) and thus was not allowed to have any “privileges” or even comment at the meetings for several years because inevitably after a few days or even weeks I would succumb to my urges and was honest about it when I did.

    After I met my first girlfriend (a JW girl I met online and only ever had a long distance relationship with) I was able to suppress my sexual urges long enough to honestly start getting back some of my “privileges.” Then the urge to engage in cybersex with my girlfriend arose and after several months of that and our eventual breakup guilt led me to once again go to the elders where I was disfellowshipped because that event combined with my past “sins” involving pornography showed I “lacked repentance.” (All of this despite the fact that I spent hours convincing my then girlfriend that coming forward to the elders was the right thing for both of us to do.)

    Now that I have left the Org, I will occasionally pre-empt sex with my “worldy” girlfriend using porn, which has proved to be quite enjoyable for both of us. Life is so much better when you’re not living in a constant state of sexual repression.

  • TheWonderofYou
    TheWonderofYou

    Once there was a time when we rent a VHS player and a porn cassette at the video library or bought high glance porn magazine. Now it's so easy.

    I can't find that f* JW porn mentioned. Isn't that only fake JW at all? Is the mormon porn really with Mormons??

  • JWTom
    JWTom

    i couldnt resist and so i messaged the one sister on facebook and asked her about it. she was reluctant at first but loosened up in no time. she showed me the things she likes in porn and we talked about how she keeps it a secret.....guess it is really common. I have talked with her a couple of times now and we have looked at it together......

  • sparrowdown
    sparrowdown

    So it's JWpeepingtom then.

  • MeanMrMustard
  • JWTom
    JWTom

    Funny.....if you are curious about my discussion with this sister, feel free to message me privately on here and I am happy to discuss it further....

  • DwainBowman
    DwainBowman

    I have a lot of doubt's about that 95% number, either now or in the past. I would believe maybe 40% have watched it a few times, and maybe 20% as a regular thing. If the numbers were anywhere near that, I am very sure I would have known about it, with all the cong's I was in over the years, and the number of "friends" that willingly opened up to me about all kinds of stuff!!!

  • JWTom
    JWTom

    I would say it is more common than most people think, that is my conclusion now that i am talking with this sister on facebook. She has opened up to me about the different witness sisters that she talks to that look at it.....

  • pale.emperor
    pale.emperor

    I can't find that f* JW porn mentioned. Isn't that only fake JW at all? Is the mormon porn really with Mormons??

    No it's all fake. The Mormon and JW themed stuff is just a new genre that's becoming popular.

    Wont be posting a link here. I'll PM you.

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