How ambitious are you?

by freedom96 3 Replies latest jw friends

  • freedom96
    freedom96

    We were always taught that the end was right around the corner. To pursue financial gains was looked down upon and one would be considered spiritually weak if they tried too hard to make money.

    For me, I didn't care. No one at the hall was going to pay my bills, provide a house for me etc. So I learned early on that it was up to me.

    I consider myself very ambitious with a proper balance when it comes to family time, etc. I want the best for my family, and will do pretty much anything within man's laws and God's laws to get it. I will not however, screw people in the process. I just cannot sit idle and do nothing, and justify where I am in life.

    I think anyone can accomplish anything if they try hard enough.

    So, do you consider yourself ambitious, or do you tend to allow lifes ups and downs control you?

    For the record, if you have a job that you are happy with, even with perhaps a smaller salary, I am not judging you, nor do I think I or anyone else is better than anyone else. Just curious how the ex-witness mind thinks, or just how the average person thinks.

  • Xena
    Xena

    Even when I was a dub I was fairly ambitious, but I stifled it feeling like it made me a bad person, you know not to be "ambitious for God" but for material gain. Now I give full rein to my ambition, I just wish I was younger and had the opportunities I missed...but oh well life is what you make it right?

  • nowisee
    nowisee

    though i can be driven, and generally i work very very hard, i am not particularly ambitious. i have always counted my joys with being creative, producing something beautiful and appreciated, doing something worthwhile for others, rather than accumulation of $. i like being comfortable, but $ is definitely not the most important thing to me.

    some time ago i went through a career change, half by circumstance, half by choice, and traded a relatively more financially rewarding occupation which made me loonytunes (doing stupid things for stupid people), for work that truly feeds my soul. i count my blessings every day and have never looked back.

  • larc
    larc

    When I was younger, I was too ambitious. I spent too much time on my career and not enough on my children. I am now retired and making up for lost time, children wise.

    Today, I am ambitious in some areas and not others. I am ambitious when it comes to research and lazy when it comes to mowing grass.

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